So be careful about who you choose to sleep with, and when. No matter how delirious you may feel at the moment with the need to have sex with a wildly-attractive date, check their motives and credentials before you leap! (This is true for men as well as for women.)
“How often should we have sex?” If you’re already in a serious relationship with the person, how often and how you make love to one another is a foretaste of what sex in your marriage will be like. The frequency of sex should always be determined by how you feel about one another, and how well you respect the other person. You should both discuss and agree how you should approach your sex life together.
Frannie’s Story
Frannie had fallen head over heels for Manny, and she immediately threw in time, energy—her whole self—into carving out a relationship with him, just after a few dates.
It was Manny who pursued her. He was nearly 14 years older than her, handsome and sexy, accomplished and experienced. She was completely bowled over when they first kissed. It was such a hot, passionate long kiss that she
believed in the passion she felt right away, and believed this was the man for her. She moved into Manny’s apartment within the month.