person, one whom you can share and create incredible memories with.
Part 3: Method of Approach
It often happens when you least expect it.
One day, during the ordinary course of things, while you’re buying groceries, out playing football or skiing, shopping at the bookstore or book club, participating at the poetry reading or your hobby club, attending an industry convention, sitting in a coffee shop, jogging or walking in the park with your dog…you’ll suddenly meet someone who you will find attractive.
Sometimes when you meet someone for the first time, it’s like a silent explosion of excitement within you. You have a hard time not noticing him or her; your attention is riveted.
But the attraction isn’t always like this.
More often, the attraction is something that’s spread over time, a growing realization that a person who’s just stepped into your life is quite interesting. It may be something he or she has just said or done that grabs your attention and makes you take
a second look. And over the next few days or weeks you will realize that you have a growing fascination for him or her.
So how do you ask this person out for a date?
There are several ways to ask a person out for a date, but all the “techniques” have to spring from two assumptions: Assumption #1: The person you’re attracted to is actually worth dating.