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Chapter 1

Cheater types

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The Corporate Cheater

This type of cheater uses his job as a meeting place for cheating. It is more accessible, easier not to get caught, and not to mention the business trips. These men usually cheat with their assistant, secretary, or another female co-worker. He will use his business trips and a way to cheat, (Maxwell Billieon, Ray J, Death of the cheating man).

“It Wasn't Me” Cheater

This type of cheater is one of the most obvious. He is not that good at his craft and is more likely as novice at cheating. If and when he is caught with the other woman, he will claim that the guy she saw in bed with the other woman was not him. He is busted red-handed. This should sound familiar in reference to the song Shaggy came out with called, It wasn't me.

The Career Cheater

This type of cheater is much like a serial cheater. He probably has never been faithful to a woman his entire life or at least his entire dating life. This is like a full-time job for him. Just like he would have a schedule for his job, he has a schedule for the women he messes with and appointments that he needs to keep.

The Lifer Cheater

This type of cheater is usually older in age and experience. He has been with all types of women in different age groups. He is having an identity crises and needs to boost his ego to feel like he is still desirable; this is why he will mess around with different women. “He's stuck in a time warp and still needs to feel that he's got the skills to get a variety of women.”

The Weekend Cheater

This type of cheater will cheat when the opportunity presents itself. He usually likes the fast life and partying. He like to go out to the clubs and bars to drink and meet different women. He also like to party out of town to reduce his chances of getting caught. “This guy is an opportunist. He likes to party and when he gets an opportunity to do so, he takes full advantage of it. Often loud and outrageous, he likes to hit the fast spots for a weekend with his boys and knows the spots where he can gave a quick fling without the high risk of getting caught back home.”

The Looking for Wifey Cheater

This type of cheater is a man who thinks that grass is greener on the other side. He will continue to search for who he believes to be the perfect wife. “He will cheat in the name of what he believes is his Chronicles of a Cheater

true search for a better woman for himself and cast a lane to any women that he feels could take the current woman's spot. The problem is that he doesn't end one relationship before he starts another.”

The Dirt-Bag Cheater

This type of cheater just does not care and has no respect for the woman who he is in a relationship with. Most people would say “If you're going to cheat, don't bring it home”, this guy does just that. “He is the kind of guy that takes his cheating home. He has virtually no shame in where he does it, as long as he gets to do it. This guy will have sex with another woman in the same bed that he sleeps with his wife in. He is sloppy, so he may not use protection and is known to spread diseases and even get women pregnant that he's cheated with.”

The Social Network Cheater

This type of cheater uses social networks to find women to cheat with. He usually has another profile which his woman does not know about. “He maintains a secret profile and may not post his personal photo. He keeps his accounts and passwords hidden and may use a headless picture of his body or a group shot whereby he can tell interested women which face is his once he solicits them.”

First-Degree Cheater

This type of cheater is someone who does not consider his partner as someone he enjoys having sex with. She is just around to be the good girl at home. While the good girl is at home, he is seeking a girl who has a wild side (Zondra Hughes).

Second-Degree Cheater

This type of cheater is someone who is a relationship with a woman who he does not feel he is sexually compatible with. He is always looking for opportunities to have contact with other women to fill the

“sexual” void. This includes sexual desires that are not being full-filled by his current wife or girlfriend. Some men love oral sex, but their wife or girlfriend refuses to do it, so the man goes out to find someone else who is willing to do it (Zondra Hughes).

Third-Degree Cheater

This type of cheater is one who cannot resist temptation, but at the same time, his intentions are not to cheat. This is a man who will go out with his friends, a club, or some other type of event and a woman starts flirting with him. This man did not intend to cheat, but he also doesn't have enough self-control to stop before things go too far (Zondra Hughes).

The Involuntary Cheater

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This type of cheater is someone who wants to be faithful, but lacks having self-control. This happens when his partner is only having sex with him every now and then or not having sex with him at all (Zondra Hughes).