LOVE Is Our Medicine. How to Heal with Loving Presence and Hugging Meditations by Nils Klippstein - HTML preview

1. Fear of LOVE

"LOVE gives wings, but LOVE does not hurt, does not belittle, does not beat, does not lie, does not deceive."

Oc Éane writes that LOVE does not hurt. In my personal universe, I feel that this is true when we learn to trust inside. Hurt can come from disturbing our emotionally programmed patterns and comfort zones about LOVE and closeness. Our hurts can also be symptoms of emo­tional growth pain. And sometimes karmic debts need to be settled and we are not aware of it.

If we can trust that LOVE itself doesn't hurt, then what on earth is stopping us from loving purely and fully, from living in a constant energy flow of high LOVE frequen­cies, and from sharing this with more souls around us?

We are used to keeping our flame of LOVE in a very small box. Raised in a world where LOVE, affection and close­ness were only accepted within families and between mostly closed relationships, it may feel safe and familiar.

Because of our exaggerated sense of what we consider to be 'security' in many ways of life, we are used to drawing a razor sharp line between 'romantic relation­ships' and 'friendships'. In most of our cultures we are not used to holding hands with other souls we like if we are not in a relationship. Or a loving hug that lasts more than a few seconds? What would the others think, right?

Apart from the fact that we think more about other people's worries, fears, thoughts and feelings than our own, our mind machine has more programming from the past in it. What if, after holding hands and hugging, the other person falls in LOVE and wants more? What if we ourselves fall in LOVE?

Why do we call it 'falling' when it is actually an uplifting, exhilarating and wonderful high frequency experience? The falling in energies and frequencies only happens when our LOVE is shielded or rejected by closed doors and windows in the other soul. It can also happen when we give ourselves up for the other, which does not respect the LOVE for ourselves. In this case we are the ones closing doors and windows to ourselves.

The High Priestesses and High Priests of Sanuela often live in a stable LOVE relationship network, which may also consist of one or more Moon Love relationships with one sensual LOVE ceremony in a moon. More about this in the "Getting Closer" chapter.

Does our comfort zone keep us safe? Well, most relation­ships end after some time, so there is not much safety in that. Closing our LOVE to others brings with it a whole range of shadows: jealousy, betrayal, mistrust, anger, fear, ... In this climate it is very difficult to feel LOVE and very easy to be traumatised again and again.

The purpose of our strict relationship laws is to enable us to fulfil our natural human need for closeness and LOVE in a safe way. So we restrict our LOVE in order to feel safe with LOVE.

What if we were to allow ourselves to open the doors of the mental cage that we have constructed for ourselves? Perhaps a stable network of relationships is a better way, where even a break-up would not traumatise us in the same way, if there are other loving and close souls around us who can balance the loss together with us.

This does not mean that we can use the others in order to run away from the inner processing of pain and forgiveness that is needed. But it does mean that we are not cut off from the flow of LOVE. For that is what always hurts the most. We are human and human beings suffer or even die without LOVE.

Opening our relationships in reasonable and safe small steps is only one way to share more loving healing energies in our lives. The other way is to experience it through someone who has made it their life's mission to live and breathe from the heart centre. We can call them angelic humans, High Priestesses and Priests, holy Marys, Energetic Heart & Soul Companion, or we can describe them as those who continue to cleanse themselves of inner shadows, fears and addictions in order to share their high LOVE frequencies with others.

How deep and wide can our LOVE grow when we allow it? How powerful can our healing become for ourselves and others around us with a radiant flowing LOVE that is ten times or more beyond our current imagination? There is no limit to LOVE unless we set that limit for ourselves.

One of the first important steps is to trust in the beneficial universe that Gaia offers us (*). Trusting ourselves and our surroundings means that we create our own inner safe space wherever we go.

The second important step is to maintain this safe space for the other soul. In the purely loving offerings of the High Priestesses and High Priests of Sanuela, there is no further physical action to enhance sensual or sexual activity. There is complete stillness and awareness in feeling, seeing and holding each other.

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