Know Who You Are
Growing up we had people tell us what they thought they saw who we were. A doctor, singer, technician, whatever profession they thought. And as life began to weave its web and do what it does best, other circumstances tried to dictate to us who we were.
You have to know for yourself who you are. You cannot let others define you or put you in their "box of life." You have to gain control over the person that you are. Look at yourself from the inside out and examine it very closely.
Know that you may be much more than what you have become. If you really know who you are, do what you must, "By any means necessary", to cause that part of you to surface and take precedence in your life. Define who you are by BEING who you were meant to be, not what others said you were or are.