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LOVE TEXTS Make Any Man Yours...

Through Texting

BY AMY NORTH

Amy North

DATING & RELATIONSHIP COACH

Amy North is a relationship coach, Youtuber and

best-selling author from Vancouver, Canada. She

specializes in helping women from around the

world find and keep the man of their dreams. Amy’s acclaimed online programs, Text Chemistry and

The Devotion System, have sold nearly 100,000

copies and are widely considered to be among

the best and most comprehensive women’s dating

guides on the planet.

LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING

How can I get him interested if he won’t even

talk to me?

I knew it was coming but when I heard that

question, I immediately cringed. I knew she could

see it on my face.

It’s the one question that I’d been trying to answer my whole career, and I’m not

the only one.

Janine was one of

the most beautiful,

loving, intelligent

women I’d ever

met and I knew

she was this guy’s

perfect match but

NONE OF THAT

MATTERED because

he wouldn’t even talk

to her.

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She was still staring at me.

Tears were beginning to

form in her eyes and

beyond that, she was

looking for answers.

But I was speechless.

Then something

amazing happened.

I felt my phone buzz in

my pocket and suddenly

everything fell into place.

If you’re reading this, I know

you’ve run into this problem

that feels like a brick wall. I know plenty of women who found the guy of their dreams and lost him

because a breakdown in communication made it

impossible to get close to him.

Without fail they all eventually cut their losses.

They had no choice but to move on and settle for

someone else.

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But you don’t have to.

Because after years of

research I’ve found the

foolproof way to break

through this barrier.

You can send him

texts that will make

him feel like you’re the

only woman in the world

that exists because you’re

the only one who truly

understands him.

I can teach you the magic words that will make

any guy go from just passing by to completely

lovestruck in seconds.

It doesn’t have anything to do with what you look

like, how smart or interesting you are, or even if you think you’ve already messed things up with him

beyond repair.

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You can get the man of your dreams to break the

silence and go from a crush to your lifelong partner.

I’m going to tell you exactly how.

I’m also going to tell you why that coaching session with Janine was the most important of my career

because it unlocked a secret for me that forever

changed my understanding of how women and men

interact.

The answer to both of these secrets is actually the same, and it has to do with text messaging.

Do you like to watch? You can get the same

information by watching my free video

presentation all the way through. The first step

to everlasting love is just a click away.

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WHAT MEN WANT OUT OF TEXTING

To understand why men text (and why they don’t) you have to understand what men want. First, stop

listening to men on this subject. The truth is that men have no idea what they want.

That means you can safely ignore the idea that the man you like is looking for the perfect, independent woman who loves sports and beer and will bend

over backwards to please him in any way.

Think about it.

How many women do

you know with huge

hearts, big brains,

and amazing looks

that can’t seem to

get a guy to stick

around?

It’s because, while these

things are nice, they won’t

make any difference to a

guy if she doesn’t give him

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what he really wants. And what men really want is

actually hard wired into their brains.

Men want to chase you

Playing hard to get isn’t

as simple as some

people make it out

to be. If you’ve ever

played with a cat

and a string you’ll

understand this

principle. You need to

bring the string close

enough to them to get

them interested but just out

of their reach.

Men thrive on challenge and proving themselves.

They often don’t know what to do when a good

thing just falls right into their lap.

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Men want to provide

Men have an innate need to provide for women.

These days, this doesn’t mean that they want to

bring you home a wooly mammoth but it means

they want to be useful to you in some way. Whether it means giving you a ride to work, mowing your

lawn or just providing you with some information,

it’s important to feed these ancient provider

instincts that are deep in the heart of every man.

Men want a committed

relationship

Even though many

women find it

difficult to get a guy

to settle down, that

is what men actually

want. It’s not that they

don’t want a relationship,

or even that they haven’t

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met the right woman yet. It’s that the women they’ve been dating haven’t given them exactly what they

want and need.

So what does any of this have to do with texting?

Everything.

This is actually way more important when you’re

just texting a guy than when you’re seeing him face to face. In person you have access to body language, pheromones, and all the non-verbal aspects of

flirting and seduction.

But when you’re texting you have to use language

and verbal behaviour to get him interested.

When I applied this information to Janine’s

situation, it changed everything.

First, let’s talk about Janine and Ethan. She was a graduate student in music and a virtuoso piano

player. She was extremely fit and a former gymnast LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING

so she was able to put both legs behind her head

without breaking a sweat.

Janine’s dream guy was Ethan. Ethan started as

her hot TA in undergrad. They hit it off right away.

She’d always stay after class to talk to them and

more than once they ended up hanging out in the

empty classroom for hours.

Then, one night, at the

department mixer they

were together outside

the campus pub. The

sun was setting

and there was no

one else around.

Janine saw that

Ethan had that

look in his eyes.

When he leaned in

to kiss her, it was like

the whole world stopped

turning just for them.

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Three Sexting Rules

1. KEEP IT FUNNY AND FLIRTY

Sexting is only awkward if you make it

that way. Being flirty and silly are super

important to breaking the tension and

driving him wild.

2. A LITTLE GOES A LONG WAY

This shouldn’t be a daily or even weekly

occurrence. The less often you get X-rated

with his inbox, the more exciting it will be

when you do.

3. DON’T BE SHY

If you decide to do some sexy texting with

a guy, don’t hold back. If you’re going to

send nudes, don’t do it half-assed.

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Looking for foolproof sexts that will turn

him on with zero risk of embarrassment?

Click here to watch my free video

presentation. I call it “Text Chemistry”

because it gives you the exact words

and phrases which will create a powerful

reaction in any man out there. Not only

will these texts stimulate his mind and

body, they’ll move his heart. Check it out

right now.

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Janine got his number that night and they texted

a few times but, somehow, that was as far as things ever went. He’d respond to

her messages a few hours

late if at all.

They’d pass each

other in the hallways

and make small

talk but every

conversation was

awkward and fell

flat. She felt like she

was talking to some

distant relative.

Where was the sexy,

impulsive Ethan that had

held her in his arms the night of the party?

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WHY MEN DON’T TEXT YOU BACK

This is the real question we have to answer to

understand what is happening here and how to

change it.

There are several reasons men don’t text back

and they’re all very simple. He knows what you’re

going to say.

Texting, like conversation is

supposed to be exciting.

If your every answer is

predictable and boring

then why should he

even text you at all?

If a guy is feeling

this way then he

has no motivation

to text you back,

much less ask you

out again.

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He doesn’t think you’re interested.

This problem comes up time and time again.

Playing hard to get is important but HARD is the

operative word here. Not impossible. If he thinks

that you either don’t know he exists or hate his

guts then why would he want to send you a text

message? Make sure your

teasing doesn’t cross a line.

He’s just not excited

about it.

There are plenty of

women I’ve talked

to who say “I suck at

texting”. Sorry ladies,

that’s not an excuse any

more.

I can tell you what to say and when to say it to

make a guy dive for his phone in the middle of an

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important meeting. This is the kind of excitement

you need to create to keep a guy interested and

excited about talking to you and seeing you as soon as possible.

When I felt my phone buzz in my pocket that day

with Janine, it hit me like a bolt of lightning: I’d been ignoring the very thing that was the key to

helping her win Ethan’s heart, and the very reason that he’d cooled off in the first place. The answer was in her phone.

Texts Men HATE

This is where we

get into the juicy

stuff. Not only are

there texts that can

make any man yours

with just a few taps,

there are a few that turn

off almost every guy and

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make him want to delete your number. And they’re

frighteningly common. I bet you’ve sent a few of

these yourself.

“What’s up?”

You may be genuinely

asking him this question

but it’s still a boring

message. It’s basically

saying “Hey, I’m

bored but I don’t

want to make any

real effort to have

a conversation with

you. I’d rather make

you do the work and

entertain me.”

Next to some cheesy pickup

line, it’s one of the least responded to opening

messages on dating apps so why should this

conversation be any different?

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Starting off with a question

isn’t usually the best move

but it’s especially bad

when it’s something

this uninteresting.

Variation of this

include “hello”,

“how’s it going?”,

“what are you up to?”

These can be great in

person but with texting

you need to make more of

an effort to put personality and

excitement into your texts.

“Hey stranger”

Anything that says “why haven’t you been texting

me?” is a mistake. These early stages are about

having fun and getting to know one another. If he’s LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING

pulling away then trying to correct his behaviour is just going to have the opposite effect that you want.

Sure enough when I looked at Janine’s conversation with Ethan, my suspicions were confirmed. She was

making all the mistakes that I’ve identified in this guide.

The truth was that Ethan

and Janine had amazing

chemistry face to face but

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she had no idea how to

communicate with him

Hey! I’ve got some

over text message.

family coming to town

and I know you know

all the good brunch

places. Do you have

She was asking a lot of

a recommendation for

boring questions. She was

me?

giving one word answers

Hello. I like Tanya’s on

to thoughtful questions

4th

and then huge paragraphs

Thanks! :) I owe you

about her day out of

one...

nowhere. Her texts looked

like the ones I get from

my grandpa.

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Ethan not only got the sense that she was bored

with him from the way she texted. He felt that she didn’t want to talk to him and that made him not

interested in talking to her. Remember that a lot of guys won’t just relentlessly pursue you if they think you’re not interested. And these are the guys you

want. They’re listening to the unconscious signals you’re giving off even if you aren’t aware of it. And with texting, these signals are louder than they are anywhere else.

Emojis are important

Emojis may not be the most high brow thing in the

world but good texting is casual. A couple of emojis can spice up a boring text when you don’t have

anything else to say.

Studies show that guys like these emojis the best:

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But steer clear of these ones:

With my help, Janine figured out what to say to

Ethan and when and after a few weeks, he got the

message and asked her out. They’re still together to this day.

This may not be the most

exciting match I’ve ever

made but for me it’s the

most important.

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THE TEXTS THAT MEN

ACTUALLY WANT TO GET

Knowing what not to text

him will make sure you

don’t hurt your chances

or scare a guy off, but

if you want to get

him hooked on you

then you need to

know the kind of

messages that men

want to get.

These are the texts that will

make his heart skip a beat.

When he reads one of these messages you’ll

become the only woman in the world to him.

If you send him these he might as well delete every number in his phone because he’ll only be using it to talk to you from now on.

And the power of these texts come in the

answer to the question Janine asked me way

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back at the beginning:

How can I get him interested if he won’t even

talk to me?

The truth is you can’t. You need to get him

talking and to do this you need to become a real,

3-dimensional woman to him using just your cell

phone and the power of language.

Modern relationships are marked by a problem of

disconnection that is caused by new technologies

like texting, dating apps and social media that

create not only false expectations but place barriers between us in the form of impersonal screens and

curated profiles.

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This places many women at a disadvantage. Those

of us who don’t excel at communicating in this way.

Those of us who’d much rather hang out one on one

and get to know a guy through dating rather than

focus on presenting ourselves in the virtual world.

But don’t lose hope. If you’re reading this, you’re already at an advantage over all the other women

out there. You’ve realized your problem and you’re actively working towards a solution. And the

solution comes in the form of understanding the

proper use of language through texting.

The next step is an easy one: watch my free video

presentation. That’s where I reveal the secret

formula to make any man fall in love with just three

texts. It sounds crazy because it is crazy. It’s not

logical how these texts can completely transform

any man from a hit-it-and-quit-it bad boy into the

loving, committed partner of your dreams. Watch

the short video right now and see for yourself.

That’s what I’ve dedicated most of my past three

years doing. I’ve done the research so you don’t

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have to. You just have to take

my advice to maximize your

results.

Think of it this way: cell

phones are the new

bicycles.

In the late 19th century, a

woman’s place was in the

home. Women would stay in

and do housework, cooking,

or sewing and the men would come to them, as

gentlemen callers.

This left women’s romantic fate largely up to their families and the men who decided to court them.

This put them in a passive position as they had

little chance but to wait and hope that the man

who came courting was someone they could see

spending their life with.

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But then this all changed with the invention of the modern bicycle.

Your Techniques Worked Like Magic!

Hey Amy…. I gave a few of your techniques

a try… like the stuff about texting and your

“Love Buzz Mindset”… and honestly, they

worked like MAGIC! he began calling and

texting me out of the blue… asking ME out

on a date …. I feel like I’m living in a dream

world. Thanks again!”

- Jessica S., California

Bikes were cheaper than a horse because it didn’t

need to be stabled, fed, or cared for.

Bicycles were simple to use, easy to acquire and

more fun and accessible than any other form of

transportation.

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In the 1880s, the streets swarmed with them.

Businessmen rode to work. Cycling tracks, bicycle

shops, and cycling clubs were

everywhere and mapmakers

turned their attention

towards road maps and

guides to cater to

this newly mobile

population.

This was

the greatest

transportation

revolution until

the invention of the

automobile.

And not only did it change the way people got

around, it created unprecedented freedom for

women. No longer were women stuck inside,

waiting for men to come to them. They were out in

the streets, riding bicycles.

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Let me tell you what I think of bicycling.

I think it has done more to emancipate

women than anything else in the world. It

gives women a feeling of freedom and self-

reliance. I stand and rejoice every time I see a

woman ride by on a wheel…the picture of free,

untrammeled womanhood.”

- Susan B Anthony

Gone were the homebound courtship rituals and

stuffy ballroom dances of the past. Instead, women chose where and when to go and who to go with.

With the popularity of bicycles increasing, women

eschewed constrictive dresses and skirts for modest trousers and bloomers.

The modern “woman on a wheel” cut a captivating

and mysterious figure for the men of the time. They stopped hanging around doorways and beneath

balconies waving handkerchiefs and went where

the women were, out in the streets, hoping to attract one of these mysterious cycling sirens.

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It really doesn’t matter much where this one

individual young lady is going on her wheel….

What the interested public wishes to know is,

where are all the women on wheels going?”

- San Fransisco Caller, 1895

Bicycles gave women freedom to control their own

romantic destiny and with that, allowed an entirely new dynamic between men and women.

Cell phones have had the same effect on dating in

the 21st century as bicycles did in the 19th.

Texting, social media, and dating apps have created a brand new romantic revolution for women of

today. They’re even cheaper, more accessible and

more connective than bikes were back then. They

allow you to find, attract, and communicate with

men anytime and anywhere.

But just like the women of the 19th century, you can either get on the bike and ride or be left behind in your drawing room.

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Follow these texting tips to have men crossing five lanes of traffic just to glimpse your tire tracks, just don’t forget to wear a helmet!

Get on the bike and ride

Many women bemoan the lack of quality men and

the difficulty of texting without ever really making an effort. I won’t say texting is a numbers game but you need to be reaching out and talking to men if

you want them to know you’re there.

Stay on course

When texting a guy you

like, be focused and clear.

Texting in the early

stages is about being fun

and flirty, getting to know

one another, and sending

signals. It’s not about venting

about your frustrations and

personal problems.

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