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Launch Your Love
Life … NOW!!
By David DeAngelo
Welcome to the Launch Your Love Life complete ebook collection. Inside,
you will find the BEST advice from world-famous dating and relationship
expert, David DeAngelo.
The information in this ebook is designed to help YOU to go from dateless
and alone... to a man full of confidence, integrity and appeal who is hugely
successful with women, dating and relationships.
No matter where you are right at this moment, this is where to begin.
Read up, learn, practice the tips and techniques, and see what making a
few tweaks to your daily habits, your body language and your mindset can
do to take you from zero to hero with the woman of your dreams.
David's personal mission is to help as many men around the world as he
can to find that satisfying, intense, total 10 relationship with a woman who is
a perfect fit for him.
Are you ready to Launch Your Love Life?
Then by all means, read on....
5 Best Ways To
Get A Date NOW!!
By David DeAngelo
By David DeAngelo
Do you spend way too much precious time out of your life wishing and wondering what
it would be like to succeed with women?
If you’re like I used to be, I can predict that you spend a LOT of time fantasizing about this stuff.
That’s why, today, I’m excited to share a special “quick start” guide dedicated to
helping you stop wondering and dreaming… and start getting out there, meeting and
getting dates with amazing women.
In the following pages, you’ll learn the quickest, easiest ways that I’ve discovered to:
● leave fear behind and approach women with confidence
● say and do everything right to get a woman’s attention… and get dates
● “close the deal” to take things to a physical level and beyond.
Best of all, I’m going to show you my best shortcuts for doing it ALL in natural,
effortless ways that make meeting women and getting dates feel almost second-nature
I thought it would.
Let’s get started...
Best Way To Get A Date #1: Change Your Routine
No doubt about it... most guys don’t know where to begin when it comes to meeting
women and getting dates.
They keep banging their heads against the wall, doing difficult, inconvenient, expensive stuff that never works.
They keep going places they can't stand being in the hopes of "randomly" coming across a great woman who might give them the time of day.
They keep chasing women who aren't interested or available. They sift through dating
sites and ping women who will NEVER respond to them. They constantly aim for that
one-in-a-million "ideal girl."
So guess what happens next:
They end up feeling so discouraged, hopeless, and depressed about their lack of results that they finally give up.
And who can blame them?
Having a parade of random women flowing through your life whom you have nothing in
common with is how NOT to succeed.
That’s why, when it comes to bringing the right women into your life and getting dates with them, one of the best things you can do is making a few small adjustments to your life’s routine that are quick, easy, and won't cost a thing…
… but that make a HUGE difference when it comes to succeeding with women and
dating at last.
STEP 1: Sit down with your laptop (or even a pen and paper, you’ll be amazed how well they still work) and start listing the top qualities and characteristics you want in the women you meet in life.
Remember to make these qualities reasonable... unless you're an A-list movie actor or a rock star, there's just no way you can set up your routine so that a supermodel knocks on your door every hour.
That aside, though, you’re good to go. Get that list going.
We'll take "Attractive" as a given. Maybe you'd also like the women you meet to be caring... intelligent… outgoing and generous… sensitive… all great.
STEP 2: Once you have these characteristics in hand, here comes the hard part: start thinking about the routine of your life as you live it right now.
Put some effort in here. Really think about it in detail. Consider all of the traveling, tasks, errands, and recreation that are part of your day-to-day experience.
This could include the small stuff you do on a regular basis like grocery shopping or
walking Fido at the dog park. It could be grabbing a mocha at the corner cafe every
morning, or jogging, or going to the gym. Make a list of these things. Leave nothing out.
Now here’s the really critical part. in life.
STEP 3: Begin adding NEW places and activities to the list that you've always wanted to get to.
These are things you've always wanted to do but have been putting off, like learning
how to skydive or snowboard.
Maybe it's stuff you used to do and would like to start doing again, like taking classes or playing a sport.
Then, once you have your full list of "life activities" together, it's time to move on to: STEP 4: Clearly, the routines of you’re living right now aren’t doing much to help your dating success. So here’s where things gets fun:
Take a few moments to carefully go through your complete list and categorize each
entry in one of 3 ways:
And "finally: “Wishful Thinking”
For your “Doing it” entries…It’s time to CHANGE THINGS UP in this list RIGHT NOW in
ways that will immediately increase your exposure to new opportunities with women.
Stop into a different coffee shop. Walk Fido somewhere else.
You get the picture.
For your “Doable” list entries…It’s time to
start making some plans to make these
happen. Whether you want to take up knitting
or extreme snowboarding, jump online and
enroll in a class. Join Facebook groups. Get
the wheels turning in all the ways that bring a
flow of new people… AND WOMEN… into
Of course, some of the stuff on your list may sound like just a dream right now… your
“Wishful Thinking” items. Here’s the truth about these…
Usually, these are goals that you simply need more confidence, time, or money to get into. And that’s fine.
I’m here to tell you… once you get women and dating handled, your life will change in
amazing ways that make all of this and more completely possible - and that will naturally lead to getting dates with more and more women!
If you know anything my teaching when it comes to women and dating, you know that
this one is practically the whole ballgame.
If you learn to do nothing else, to start getting dates, you MUST learn how to do this. But if it were easy, you’d be doing it already, right?
So let’s get into this… just what is it that EVERY woman is really looking for in a man who approaches her?
The answer is no surprise after you've spoken to as many women as I have about the subject...
Women want a man who makes them FEEL something (other than complete
boredom or total revulsion) from the moment he approaches them.
This is why approaching women trying to use pick-up lines and logic is a loser's game.
Even worse, "hitting on a woman" is a total road to nowhere (ever wonder why they call it "hitting" on a woman? It's because it's usually so painful for her).
Basically, there's just no way that lines, wuss-like begging and Vulcan logic can connect with a woman EMOTIONALLY.
On the other hand… if you start off the interaction with a woman in the right way, you'll instantly start making her feel it for you… and that will cause her to see almost anything you do from then on as attractive.
This is huge. It should be written on that tablet held by the Statue Of Liberty or something...
It’s simply this:
Once a woman thinks of you in a particular way, good or bad, she will KEEP
thinking of you that way (and it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE to change things).
In other words, if you start out by doing everything wrong, from acting like a WUSSY to begging and chasing, she's going to assume that you will ALWAYS act like this, and
she’s going to REJECT you instantly.
Makes sense, right? There are 50 more guys lined up behind you… why should she
waste even another minute on you?
Once you learn how to approach a woman in the right way to get her attention
and create attraction right from the start, you’re golden… getting a date with her
becomes a foregone conclusion, no matter where, how, or when you approach a
So what’s the right way to approach her to get that date?
Let me put it this way…
I recently went online and looked through women's profiles (more on the “online” part of getting dates coming up…)
And sure enough, there it was:
One word kept popping up again and again when it came to what almost EVERY
WOMAN was looking for in a guy...
And that word was "FUN".
The magic secret was right there in front of me...
If you can be that one-in-a-hundred guy who can make his first few moments with a
woman FUN, then you’ve taken control of the whole interaction and can basically take it anywhere that you want it to go.
This is a THOUSAND TIMES MORE POWERFUL than having money or good looks or
the "perfect pick-up line".
On the other hand… if you blow it by NOT making things fun for her… then you've
destroyed any chance for success with her.
In fact, women tell me all the time that they spend the
minutes after a man approaches them waiting for him
to finally "give up" and "go away".
They tell me most men BORE them. Act awkward and
nervous… unsure of what to say... using body
language that projects fear and uncertainty… hemming
and hawing and using those same lame, stale pick-up
This why making the experience FUN for a woman
gives you a MAGICAL ADVANTAGE over 99% of all
It moves you closer to closing the deal with her more
quickly and easily than you ever imagined possible.
Here's a SPECIFIC EXAMPLE:
Let's say you're near a supermarket when you see a
woman you'd like to meet.
What a great chance to make things FUN.
All you have to do is walk up to her and say: "Excuse me... I was on my way to grab a few groceries to cook a special dinner, and I need a woman's advice. Would you
mind helping me?"
Of course, most men feel like this sounds unthinkable... why would you do
something like asking a woman to accompany you on an errand to the
supermarket... possibly to prepare for a date with ANOTHER woman?
Let's analyze the A-B-C’s of what's really happening here for the answer...
broadcasting insanely huge CONFIDENCE to a woman every time.
B. At the very same time, even as she senses that you’re a man with sky-high
confidence, she also senses that you're "no threat" because you're possibly
preparing for a big date with ANOTHER woman. Huge bonus: you’re also letting
her know that you’re IN-DEMAND at the same time!
C. Best of all, you're showing the woman that you're FUN and SPONTANEOUS.
Any guy who’s asking women for advice about a dinner date is up for anything,
and she’s immediately wondering what’s going to happen NEXT (also known
as the opposite of being bored.)
Try this out, and what's going to happen next?
9 times out of 10, a woman will be so intrigued and interested that "blowing you off"
will be the furthest thing from her mind. Assuming she's not in a rush, she'll probably say something like:
"What? You want me to come grocery shopping with you?"
She'll be wonderfully confused. She'll be emotionally engaged. You'll have her full
Communicate all of this to a woman, and she'll immediately be hooked. She'll instantly respect you and want to know more about you.
In other words, she'll feel the first tiny sparks of that magic feeling called
ATTRACTION. And, as you may know, that's what EVERYTHING that I teach is all about.
But okay. So now you have her attention.
What's next? Do I really have to say it again?
KEEP THINGS FUN.
Early in the supermarket visit, make a pass by the magazine rack. It's literally a bottomless pit of fun conversation.
Pick up a tabloid and make fun of some handsome movie star's picture. When
you're in the aisles, pick up some odd product. A jar of "Clamato" juice or
You look like thèClamato' type..."
If the woman picks up anything, bust on that, too... "Wow, that's
fattening..." If she gets nothing, ask her if she's fasting.
Whatever. There are a million possibilities at this
point. And here’s the best part:
Once you have her suggestions about what SHE would cook for a date, it's time to
"close the deal"...
At check-out, let her know that you're shopping to make dinner for HER after all. At this point, it's almost GUARANTEED she won't reject you for three reasons:
● By now, you've engaged her EMOTIONS. She's feeling fun and adventure,
separating you from all the other guys who just make her feel bored and
● Because all this was NON-THREATENING to her, she's much more likely to
give you the "benefit of the doubt" and go along for the ride a little further.
● Above all, you've proven you're a "FUN GUY" while she didn't even
realize it was happening!
This example is specific to the supermarket, but I think you can see how it could be
universally applied to almost any place you happen to be, no matter what the situation is.
Here’s another great example.
Go into any bar or club.
Take a good look around.
When you do, you'll notice something right away...
It’s that 99% of the single guys in the place look pretty miserable.
Most will look like they can't wait to get home.
And it’s all happening for just one reason: THEY'RE NOT HAVING FUN.
The fact is, for most guys, going out to a bar or club to "pick up women" really is about as enjoyable as a root canal. And every women in the room -- especially the attractive ones -- pick up on the miserable "vibe" most guys put out there.
Without even trying, women can sense "LOSER" coming off these guys like a bad radio station playing a song they just can't turn off.
YOU need to take advantage of this situation.
Almost every guy in the room is so busy looking miserable and sabotaging himself that it kills his chances with these women before he ever opens his mouth…
… and clears the way for YOU.
Don’t waste this opportunity.
Learn how to make one simple that puts the spotlight of attention squarely on YOU… and how off-the-hook fun you are.
Here are a couple techniques that you can use at a bar or club or anywhere to do it
without ever saying a word…
Rolling With The Girls
Stay with me, this one sounds a bit counterintuitive at first...
Let me ask you: when you know you’re going out and may find yourself in a situation to meet women, who do you think you should have with you?
If you’re thinking you need your “wolf pack” and your “wingmen” with you to feel
confident and secure, guess what…
Once again, you’re thinking just like that 99% of all other boring, predictable guys.
As we discussed, this is NOT the way to stand out, get noticed, and move to the head of the line with women who are getting approached and hit on all day.
That in mind…
To get noticed by women (while also having them instinctively feel at ease and “safe”
with you) the best people to roll with are OTHER WOMEN.
They can be friends, sisters, whatever. Just wrangle up two or three great women whom
you know and trust, and go out together.
You’ll be astonished by how well this works… at the club, the mall, wherever, when
you’re with other women, they put out a vibe to every other female in the vicinity that you’re a “catch.”
Best of all, it immediately makes the women you want to approach feel at ease
with you. It’s like carrying around a magic key that unlocks every door for you.
Rolling With The Guys
If you’re set on traveling with your “wolf pack,” here’s a way to make that work like
magic for you, too...
Go ahead and call up a buddy or two and ask them to meet you at a bar or club near
you. Before YOU go out, make sure to bring a CAMERA with you.
It can be a stand-alone digital, or built into your cell phone. Doesn't matter...as long as the camera has a working flash.
As you hang out with your friends, start snapping a few pictures of each other.
As the flashes go off, get loud. Start to laugh. Snap a shot of the bartender. High-five each other. Laugh some more.
In other words (here it comes again in case you didn’t get the message) make sure to
show that you’re having FUN.
But, at the same time, also make sure NOT to pay attention to any of the women in the place.
Just party with your friends, and THAT'S ALL.
This will slowly begin to create an energy around you that's positively MAGNETIC.
Before you know it, you'll be drawing people over who want to know "What's going on over here?" Both men and women all wondering, "Why are THOSE guys having so
much fun... and what am I missing out on here?"
These signals create an irresistible "vibe" that will draw women to you because, when you're genuinely having a good time, you naturally put out signals that cause
women to be naturally intrigued and curious about you.
Without even trying, you generate 80% of the body language needed to create
attraction… broadcasting biologically proven expressions, movements, and eye contact
that get a woman’s attention.
Here’s one more easy example of how to show a woman you’re FUN and therefore
spark instant interest…
Let’s say you go into Starbucks to order, and the woman behind the counter is someone
you’d like to strike up a conversation with.
Order your drink, then take out your credit card and hand it to her. Watch carefully...
When she goes to take the credit card, pull it back just a tiny bit so she misses
it. When she tries to grab it again, pull it back again.
The first time she’ll think she made a mistake...
but the second time, she’ll realize that you’re
actually doing it on purpose, and you’ll see her
look up at you.
And, in that moment, a little window
opens where you’re flirting and
having fun. This is when you need to
pay close attention:
If you’re on top of your game, you will feel
that you’ve created a tiny moment of chemistry and sexual tension with her…
Now, it’s time to use some other techniques that we’re about to talk about to close the deal. But, in the meantime, always remember:
Whether you’re at the grocery store, or at a bar, or walking through a mall, when you
approach a woman with a sense of "Hey, let's have an adventure, let's go have some FUN..." it's 100% contagious.
A woman will start attributing all those positive feelings to you...
… and you're golden.
You'll not only end up with her number at the end of the day... she'll probably end up BEGGING YOU to bring her home.
Here’s how to make it happen…
Best Way To Get A Date #3: Master Online Communication
In this day and age, every time you’re on your computer... tablet... smart phone...
whatever... whenever you’re connected, you’re truly just one click away from getting a date.
What an awesome time to be alive. What could be easier?
I could talk for days about the power of online dating (I think I literally have in my video programs), but let me give you a few key pointers right here.
Here’s what you MUST keep in mind:
There are literally tens of millions of people trying to use the same tools a for dating.
Therefore, easy to imagine that women who go online, join dating sites, etc., get tons of pings from men. That’s why...
Now more than ever you need to remember that online dating is a big numbers game.
Right off the bat, you need to know that creating a great profile and Facebook page are prerequisites for separating yourself from the crowd and putting the odds in your favor.
So make sure to turbocharge YOUR online presence with energy and personality.
For example, instead of writing a profile that says: "I'm a nice, regular, boring guy who loves puppies and rainbows and cuddling," say: "I'm that guy your mom warned you about. But hey, we both know that you never listened to her."
Also, remember that most systems will have your updated profile come up first in
search results because it's "fresher." So, to increase your dating success in a big way, you MUST update your profile every day.
When you see a woman’s profile that you’d like to respond to, the same rules apply...
Keep in mind that you need to be one of the first guys to respond to a woman’s profile instead of the 432nd guy.
So keep your eye open for the new listings every day. Then write some women!
Instead of dropping a note that says: "Hi, you sound like just the girl I've been looking for all my life and I think we could have a great relationship," say: "Hey, you probably couldn't handle me, but I thought I'd give you a chance anyway."
And don't focus too much on "getting together" yet. Just focus on getting to the next step…
Making Contact In “Real Life”
The goal of any online interaction is actually getting a real-life DATE… so the next thing you should do is get on the phone.
Don't waste time writing a lot of emails back and forth. You're not looking for pen pals, so don't act like it.
Call her, and be cool about it.
Don't try to be too "suave." Don't go off about work, family or any other "boring" topics. Above all, don't try to set up the date immediately.
Just get on the phone and just say, "Hey, what's up?" Work on making a little small talk, but not much.
Then let her know about plans you have in the next couple days, and that she’s
welcome to come along if she likes.
Toward the end of the conversation, remind her that you're busy... but that she can feel free join you in whatever you're doing later.
Then tell her that you have to go and HANG
UP. This shows her that you don't need her to
Do just that much, and she'll be thinking about you for the next several days.
Texts And Email
If you’re texting or emailing a woman at this point, keep it light as well.
Your tone should still be cool,
calm, laid-back, busy, and
upbeat. Never complain about
things in your pings, or whine, or
act like you're in a bad mood
and need attention.
Above all, remember that if she
doesn't ping you back in a day
or two, make sure she gets the
hint that you're busy, that you're
dating other women, and that
you're not impressed with the
fact that she's a flake.
It’s then okay to send her one FINAL text or email that says: "What, trying to play hard to get already? Last chance. Call me."
If she doesn't call you at this point, don't call or email her again. PERIOD.
Add it all up, and there’s no doubt about it…
Becoming a true master at using the phone and internet to spark interest and attraction is the best way there is today, bar none, to get dates.
Best Way To Get A Date #4: Practice Practice Practice
Once you’ve gone through these steps and methods for becoming more successful with
women it will start to happen automatically…
You WILL meet women you really like.
ATTRACTION. You WILL get dates.
But, for right now, the first thing you need to get handled is feeling comfortable around attractive women.
And the only way to do that is to practice.
That's why I want you to try approaching 25 women over the next week.
Relax… it isn’t nearly as hard as it sounds.
Just walk up to an attractive woman anywhere you find one… the store, the mall, the
usual places we’ve talked about… and give her a compliment and walk away.
Say: "Hi, I just wanted to tell you that I think you're beautiful. Have a great day..."
… and walk away.
It will blow you away how quickly this simple exercise works to build your dating muscles while making your fear and anxiety about approaching women a thing of the past.
Practice Being “UN-Needy”
This is critical…
When you focus all of your energy and time on a woman that you've just met, it creeps
her out and makes her run away as fast as she can.
So practice not doing it!
Here’s a way to do it with very low risk and low stakes:
Let’s say you’re in a university or a yoga class at your local gym or whatever. Simply sit next to an insanely beautiful girl... and then practice ignoring her.
Easy. You can handle that,
right? Just pretend she’s not
even there. Don't look at her,
talk to her, etc.
If she says anything to you during the class, answer in a disinterested voice and don't look at her.
You'll be strengthening your “don’t look like a Wuss” muscles right along with your actual muscles. You'll be well on your way to feeling more strong, comfortable, and in-control around women - the key ingredient to starting to get dates.
Oh, and when you do get some interest…
Like I say, don't act like you might want to get married within 90 days, or like you've met the woman of your dreams.
Give her some space, and the gift of missing you. Don’t call her the next day.
Give it some time. And then practice the right way to getting to the next step...
Let’s say you’ve got something good going with a woman using the techniques we’ve
talked about so far. You’re dating, and things are moving along (awesome job…)
Especially if you haven’t had much success with women and dating yet, for the first 10
dates or so it can take practice and effort to make sure you aren’t coming across as too needy, clingy, or at her service...
… and the easiest way to do it is by NOT seeing her more than once or twice a
week. Don't focus too much energy on her. If you're dating other women, don't
Basically, stay busy with your own life and always have other things going on.
When you do, you’ll automatically continue to send her all the right signals…
signals that only increase ATTRACTION because you’re not building your whole
life around her.
She’ll instinctively sense that you have things to do and a purpose in life, and that your world won't collapse if you can’t be with her.
And guess what… this will only ratchet up her feelings of attraction for you even
more. So keep having a life even AFTER you’ve got all of this “getting dates”
It’s like rocket fuel for getting EVEN MORE DATES.
Best Way To Get A Date #5: Learn How To Get Physical
Once you've laid the groundwork for dating success by mastering the principles and
techniques of creating attraction… there’s just no way around it:
Let’s face it…
If you DON’T know how, it seeps through and shows in everything you do.
It makes you nervous and uncertain from the first moment that a woman looks like at you.
When you DO know what to do, every technique we’ve talked about to this point
becomes magically even easier and more powerful... and it’s all because you don’t feel lost, nervous, or afraid when it comes to ramping up SEXUAL TENSION.
In other words, once you know how to get physical, you’ll be able to approach a
woman with CONFIDENCE in different situations, start conversations, and know
EXACTLY what to do to close the deal to get actual DATES.
On the other hand…
If you don't have a handle on the basics of getting physical, the hard fact is that
everything we’ve discussed so far will seem MUCH harder to do.
So make it your goal to get an understanding of these basics now. And here’s the great news: It's EASIER THAN YOU EVER IMAGINED to take things to a physical level with a woman.
As a starting point, let's imagine you're coming to the end of your date with a woman you really like...
It’s time to generate the first spark of "sexual feelings" in her by TAKING CONTROL of the situation.
First off, make sure that YOU'RE the one to end the date.
Be the one who says, "Okay, I think we'd better be going."
It creates suspense and intrigue in her. But, more importantly, it builds feelings in her that you might actually be a sexual partner instead of a "wussy-boy" who's scared to cut short any opportunity to talk to a woman.
Next, now that you've taken control by ending this date, you need to walk her home…
… and I’m talking to YOUR home.
Invite her back to your house or apartment, and before you go inside, start talking to her as if she's trying to convince you to let her come inside (even if she's not).
Say something like: "Sorry... I had a great time, but I have to get up early in the morning..."
She'll probably stare at you in surprise. So wait a few beats. Then say: "Oh, okay, you can come in for a few minutes." Then open the door for her like a GENTLEMAN.
Now, let's freeze-frame right here and think about what you're actually doing...
You're being chivalrous AND teasing her at the same time.
I can't emphasize enough how well this works to ramp-up feelings of sexual desire in a woman.
By being both chivalrous and teasing, you're creating incredible SEXUAL TENSION
inside her by showing her two things at once…
that you're BOTH a "bad boy" AND a "gentlemen."
This is the Holy Grail when it comes to what women want in a SEXUAL
PARTNER. So walk in and let her follow.
Take her for a casual tour, then sit her down somewhere comfortable.
Be quiet and let HER do the talking while you just look at her. While she's doing it, lean away from her, and look away. As if you're thinking about something.
Then just reach over and stroke her hair. Just a little, at the bottom, while she's talking.
If she's okay with your doing with this, you can take it as a SURE SIGN that she's into you… and things are wide open to take things to the next level physically.
This is a CRUCIAL piece of the puzzle that took me a long time to figure out.
I used to do massages and all kinds of other stuff, but I quickly learned from "the naturals"
-- the masters of women and dating -- that NOTHING works as well as stroking a
woman's hair like this.
If a woman does pull away, or in any way shows you she's not interested in
getting physical at this point, STOP. This isn't about forcing anyone to do
At this point, if she's letting you stroke her hair in this way, take things up just one small notch. Try a light hand massage. Maybe a little neck rub. Try to pull her in closer.
Start to "cuddle" with her. Sniff her hair more and more while you continue to stroke it. Within about 5 or 10 minutes, move to her neck and ears...
ANOTHER IMPORTANT NOTE:
Do not get ahead of yourself. That means NO KISSING at this point. No touching
or groping. Just continue with the smelling, leaning back and showing that you're
completely into it. Like it's relaxing you.
She'll soon become so turned on that you won't believe it. And at some point
soon... SHE'S going to be the one who tries to KISS YOU.
That's what you should be waiting for.
Let her lips get close to yours... even let them touch yours a bit... then (surprise) back off and just keep smelling.
Say something teasing like, "Oh, you're kind of forward, aren't
you?" It'll drive her CRAZY.
This kind of teasing is EXTREMELY stimulating to women... almost to the point that
they'll be in actual pain if you leave them hanging.
Two Steps Forward, One Step Back
This is the key to making smooth transitions to getting physical without getting rejected.
It’s also one of the ultimate chemistry and attraction amplifiers because, when most men make any progress at all with a woman, they don’t want to give it up. They don’t want to step back again.
So, a lot of guys will reach over and touch a woman, and if she doesn’t pull away,
they'll think the door is open and keep touching her.
That communicates neediness - taking a step forward and trying desperately to stay there.
If you take a step forward, then take a step back, and you're communicating that
you could stay there, but you’re choosing not to.
That’s very powerful for attraction
So wait a few more moments before you finally kiss a woman back full-on.
Run your hands through her hair... the whole romantic kiss thing… while you're waiting for her to start doing something sexual. Maybe grinding her hips on you... or grabbing your butt... whatever… to become the aggressor.
It’s guaranteed that her interest and desire will be on fire at this point.
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Listen… when I was first learning how to get women, I didn’t know when it was okay to kiss one.
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David D’s Top 5 Quick and
Dirty Dating Tips
By David DeAngelo
Dating Tip 1 – Tease her don’t please her.
One of the best ways to create attraction and to keep it going is to use what I call Cocky Comedy, or Cocky Funny. It’s a technique to create and amp up attraction by setting yourself up as “cocky” – walking a thin line of unattainable bad-boy without being a jerk, while at the same time elevating your status with her (therefore creating attraction) by busting on her and keeping her laughing.
Using Cocky Comedy, instead of simpering over a hot girl like a wuss, you would bust on her
– ask her where she killed the dragon to make her shoes, or if she is hiding a horse in her purse – something that will make her laugh and put her down a notch without being cruel.
You want to be edgy, arrogant, funny and aloof, and keep a straight face while you’re doing it to maximize the effect.
Dating Tip 2 – Project Confidence
We all know that dogs smell fear – and when they do, that gives them the signal they need to become the aggressor, the alpha, and act on that in the moment to instinctually take the upper hand. I’m not saying women smell fear – but, well, women smell fear!
Erasing or eliminating your fear of approaching a woman is essential for success. You HAVE
to have confidence. Here are three action steps you can take now to learn how to conquer your fear:
• Take some time to vividly imagine the BEST possible outcome of walking up and
talking to a woman that you find attractive. Every time you see a woman that you'd
like to meet, just do this. Then realize that this BEST outcome is far more likely
than your WORST idea of what could happen.
• Make a “realistic” list of the worst things that could happen, then decide exactly what you'd do if any of them actually did happen. You'll realize that you can deal with them and live through it.
• Realize that NOT taking the risk to meet a woman is actually a BIGGER risk in the
LONG RUN of your overall life. If you risk NOT meeting her, you'll never know what
might have happened, and if you let it become a habit, it will keep you from realizing ALL your dreams in life.
Dating Tip 3 – Perfect the Art of Getting Her Phone Number Fast
Employ the “Scarcity Efffect”. After I’ve talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I’ll often say something like “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to my friends.” They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say “It was nice meeting you too…”Then, just as I’m turning to walk away and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say “HEY! Do you have email?”
The “HEY!” is a bit surprising and “Do you have email” is non-threatening. In fact, I’m technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she’ll GIVE IT TO ME. If she says “yes,” I take out a pen and paper and say “Great, write it down for me” and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the ‘yes’ that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they’ve almost ALL
gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE’S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say “Write your
number down there too.”
Dating Tip 4 – Challenge Her
In the same vein as Cocky Comedy – challenging a woman shows her that you are high
status and not just low hanging fruit. Making her work for it peaks her interest and increases her attraction to you as she finds herself rising to the challenge.
• Play your cards close to the vest. Don’t introduce yourself until she asks for your name, don’t ask wussy questions like “What kind of guy do you like” or “Am I your type” or “Do you have a boyfriend?” Put a little mystery into your history!
• Make her work! Make your goal to get her to ask you out, or ask to join you to do
something you're already doing
• Decline or ignore her first advances or invitations. (You want to hang out some time? I don't know…) Do this in a fun way
• Make her qualify herself to you (“What makes you interesting/different than other
girls? What are 3 things a guy would like about you, and please don't say looks?”)
• Give her fun tests, like the Ice Cream Test - walk up to a girl with a serious look on your face and ask her, “Hey, what's your favorite ice cream?” She answers, then you roll your eyes and say, “That's minus 1 point. If you would have said Chocolate Mint I would have let you get my number. Now, if you would have said Neapolitan I would have walked
away, so you still have somewhat of a chance with me…” Do this in a sarcastic, joking
way. Women love fun little conversations like this plus it sets the “frame” that you're the selector.
Dating Tip 5 – END Any Approval Seeking Behavior
This is simple, but a big one. Attractive women
cannot stand approval seeking behavior. Men fall all
over themselves, day and night, everywhere she
goes, trying to get her attention, win her affection, or
trying to get her to grace them with a glance – and
she is sick of it.
Stand out from the crowd and use the above
techniques to END ANY approval seeking behavior.
Keep your status and make her work for it – create
attraction, be the MAN, and be prepared to stop any clingy, needy, insecure actions or questions that may want to come out of your mouth.
The Kiss Test
By David DeAngelo
How To Tell If A Woman Is Ready For Your Kiss – And
How To AVOID Rejection...
I used to have NO CLUE how to tell if a woman
was ready to be kissed...
I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself "Wow,
her lips really look nice..." but I didn't know what to do next. This would often leave me kissless, and many times kissless for good, as I didn't get another chance.
And, of course, this drove me NUTS.
I can't tell you how many chances I missed to have interesting, fun, sexy women in
my life... all because I didn't know how or when to go for the first kiss.
But through a TON of trial and error, I've now figured out a way to know FOR
SURE when a woman is ready to be kissed.
In fact, I've developed a "technique" that literally guarantees I'll never get rejected when I decide the time is right to "go for it." And I want to teach it to you right now.
Here's what I do...
If I've been talking to a girl and want to know if she's ready to be kissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make a
comment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft"
and just touch the tips of it.
Now let's hold up right here,
because this is key.
If I see that a woman is receptive to what I'm doing at
this point... that she's "responding positively" by allowing
this "innocent" physical contact…. It’s game on.
If I see that she's smiling and drawing closer as I touch her hair instead of tensing pulling away, I can take it as a SURE SIGN...
She's "FEELING IT"...
...that irresistible, unstoppable emotion called ATTRACTION.
But listen... if she does pull away at this point... or shows any sign that she's not
into it... that's when I know to STOP and move on. And YOU should, too. This
isn't about forcing anyone to do anything.
But if she's smiling at me... relaxing her face and her body... leaning into me instead of pulling away... then here's what I'll do next:
I'll reach back over and start stroking her hair some more.
But this time, I'll glance down at her lips, back up to her eyes a couple
of times. Reinforcing in her that there's a CONNECTION happening
I'll continue touching her hair... letting my lips get closer to hers... but not touching.
Basically, just amplifying that first spark of attraction that I now know FOR
SURE that she's feeling.
And I can tell you, this is a powerful thing. It's effect on
women is UNBELIEVABLE.
This kind of "testing" is EXTREMELY stimulating to women...
escalating the SEXUAL TENSION almost to the point that
they'll be in actual pain if you leave them hanging.
And guess what...
By now, she'll be more than just "okay" with my kissing her... If she hasn't pulled back, she's probably feeling such intense feelings of ATTRACTION that she'll
probably be the one who tries to kiss ME! And then...
Well. You get the picture. Bottom line:
By using "The Kiss Test," I can find out FOR SURE if a women wants to take things to the next level... all in a way that's completely "innocent" and non-threatening...
Plus, I haven't acted in any way that she can object to, so there's NO
RISK OF REJECTION. But VERY best of all...
I always know within the FIRST 5 MINUTES if a woman's ready to be kissed, so I
don't waste hours and days trying to figure out "if she likes me"... or just regretting that I "wussed out" and didn't "go for it."
And believe me... I know that feeling. And I know all that constant wondering and
self- doubt TOTALLY SUCKS.
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The Science of Creating Mind-Blowing
Sexual Tension With a Woman
By David DeAngelo
The “Science” Of Creating Mind-
Blowing Sexual Tension With A
It’s the driving force at the center of
EVERY romantic book, movie, and
So why is it, when it comes to creating
“sexual tension” with a woman, most
men don’t get what it really is – and
even fewer have any clue what it
REALLY takes to create it?
If you’re like most guys that I talk
to about this, there’s a good
chance that YOU may not know
quite as much as you think about
what it takes to create and amplify
SEXUAL TENSION, either.
But no worries. That’s what you’re old pal David D. is here
for… First off, a quick reality-check:
Despite what most guys think, sexual tension is NOT mostly about physical attraction.
It’s MUCH more about creating a curious, excited, anticipatory feeling in a woman…
a tantalizing, slightly frustrated sensation of wondering and imagining and wanting
more from a man.
Now, of course, if you’re an incredibly attractive athlete or a rich movie star, just “looking hot” may be all you need to get a woman feeling some sexual tension. But guess what…
When it comes to the other 99.9% of us guys who aren’t movie stars, the idea that
sexual tension is based on PHYSICAL attraction couldn’t be more WRONG.
Or more needlessly discouraging.
Truth is, creating amazing sexual tension with a woman is something that ANY man
can learn how to do… that is, once he understands the simple “science” behind
making it happen. That in mind, here’s…
A Quick, Fail-Proof Lesson In Creating Sexual Tension
In the science of physics, “tension” is defined as a force created by pulling in
OPPOSITE DIRECTIONS on an object.
When it comes to creating SEXUAL tension in a woman, the same rules apply.
Although we’re in NO way implying that a woman is an “object, the principle is the same: To create that incredible feeling of sexual tension in a woman… one that she can’t
ignore or resist… you need to apply two “forces” to her emotions at the same time:
1) PULL HER TOWARDS YOU ENERGETICALLY
When a man approaches a woman in just the right way to make her feel like he’s potentially a great match, it’s automatic… she naturally wants to get closer to him, learn more about him and spend more time with him.
If you’ve spent any time learning with me at all, you already know this “pulling force” as ATTRACTION. (In fact, I’ve written an entire, world-famous book on the subject… if you haven’t read it yet, download it here for a SPECIAL OFFER ONLY 50% off!).
In a nutshell, ANY man can learn how to create attraction by learning how to be Cocky & Funny in the right proportions with a woman… by never coming across as desperate and needy… by showing her that you have confidence, control, and a purpose in life.
All of this tells a woman that you’re different than the other 99% of guys who hit on her all day.
That she may actually feel great and have fun spending time with you.
And that’s what it takes to make her feel that first critical component “force” of sexual tension called ATTRACTION.
Now let’s be clear:
Until you learn how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION, there’s no way you can possibly
make her feel sexual tension. Period.
However, once you know how to take the steps to create attraction, something magical happens: A woman begins to feel drawn to you. She enjoys the sparks of an unpredictable story
unfolding. She feels a strong ANTICIPATION and a wanting for more.
That’s precisely when it’s time to apply a second force – but in the OPPOSITE direction – to create that irresistible feeling of SEXUAL TENSION in a woman…
2) PUSH HER AWAY AGAIN – ENERGETICALLY
You heard right… just when you’re getting those signals that she’s really feeling it for you, it’s time to push her away.
Not in any physical sense, of course.
We’re talking about putting up small, fun, exciting “ROADBLOCKS” that get in the way of her getting more of what she wants from you: more of your time and attention.
These roadblocks can be as simple as not answering her questions directly (believe me, the more ATTRACTION she feels, the more questions she’ll have.)
Instead of telling her right out where you live or what you do, change the subject…
“Wow, there’s an interesting story behind that, but first, how about another cup of tea?”
Tell her she has to earn information about you by proving she’s not just another woman who wants your body, or by telling you three fascinating things about herself first.
Above all: don’t EVER be at her beck and call, whether it’s returning a message
from her or planning an activity.
And, when things move toward getting physical, that’s when it’s REALLY time to amp
up the sexual tension…
Whenever you make a move to take things to the next level physically…
whether it’s holding her hand, going in for that first kiss, or taking it to the
bedroom… PAUSE right there. Then actually back things up a step or two
before moving forward again.
When you start using the “science” of sexual
tension working in these ways… getting the
opposing forces of ATTRACTION and
PULLING AWAY happening at the same time
for a woman… you’ll start to see mind-blowing
things start to happen.
You’ll drive her crazy with a maddening mix
of feelings for you, both not knowing what’s
coming next plus feeling excitement and
And that’s when you’ll see her start responding to
you in the most wonderful ways.
If that sounds good to you: the NEXT thing you need to know is that creating sexual
tension is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to how simply that YOU, too, can
start succeeding with women…
… Once You Have The Simple “Secret Formula” For Making It Happen
After years of research and experimentation in the “lab” of the real world, I’ve created that 100% SUCCESS-PROVEN formula for you…
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The 5 Best Opening Lines
To Spark Attraction
By David DeAngelo
The 5 best Opening Lines to Spark Attraction By David DeAngelo
After years of learning from the “masters” what it REALLY takes to succeed with
women, I’ve put together a short list of my favorite ways to kick-off a conversation,
ignite a woman’s interest, and spark ATTRACTION with her right there on the spot.
Try these out... they’re road-tested and 100% success-proven. Even better: they’re
simple, powerful steps that ANY guy can take to start making his dating dreams
#1: “Is it true…?”
This one works like magic to grab a woman’s interest. And, like the very best conversation-starters, it works by creating irresistible chemistry with a little teasing.
Simply look a woman in the eye and say: "Tell me something... is it true what they say about redheads (or brunettes, or whatever she is)?" She'll say, "What? I’m not sure.
What is it that they say about us?" You’ll answer: "If you don't know, I'm not going to tell you until I know your name. Just in case you kick my butt when I tell you."
After getting her name, check your watch and say: "Look. I’m a busy guy I have to run, but I'd like to continue this conversation. Do you have e-mail?" Then hand her your phone as if you fully expect her to enter her info… 9 times out of ten, she’ll do it!
Guess what. You just got her number. And, if you do everything right from here, you’ll also have a date with a beautiful redhead. Or brunette. Or whatever.
This one works big-time anywhere you happen to be. In fact, it works even BETTER
in places that a woman doesn’t expect to be approached.
Pick out a woman and walk up to her. Lock eyes with her. Then pause for three
seconds and say the word "Beautiful" while keeping that eye contact. Then keep on walking.
Almost every time, a woman will stop you and try to talk to you as you're walking away.
When she does, jump into asking a few casual, Cocky & Funny questions questions
(“Do you really think you’re the only beautiful woman I had to say that to today?”) to start a conversation. Then get serious. Ask her if she lives in the area or if she's
visiting. Ask her what her name is -- simple stuff like that.
And you’re in.
#3: “Did you hear about...”
I love this because it’s fool-proof and scientific.
Simply walk up to a woman and say: “Hey... did you
hear what happened today?”
You’re guaranteed to have her full attention
because humans are actually “hardwired” to pay
attention to sudden changes or events. Plus,
you’re showing her that you're a man who’s
interested in life - a powerful way to spark
attraction in the kind of high-quality woman who
values depth in a man.
Of course, this one does require that you do a little
homework first. So take a fast pass through MSN and memorize the craziest items you
Have them on your phone and ready to go. That way, you can offer to share the link
with her... an amazingly quick and easy way to get her email!
My students often ask me about the simplest opening line… one that NO guy can mess up.
That line is “Hey.” That’s it. Just that one word.
Say it firmly and loudly with a powerful stance, in an authoritative way, and it will be the most unusual thing that a woman hears all day.
It will make her stop and pay attention as you follow up with a conversation-starting Cocky
& Funny question, like, “Why are women so crazy, and men so perfect at dating?” Or “I was just thinking about the one thing you need to change about yourself to have a chance with me…” Or "You look like a movie star... can I have your autograph?"
So practice walking up to a woman and just saying “Hey” in the RIGHT way. Notice how
you will have her full attention. The door will be open. Now it’s up to you to walk through it.
Every guy is searching for an opening line that seems natural and friendly and doesn't make a woman think they're coming on to her. Right?
If that’s what you’re looking for… it’s time to look a little further.
Fact is, if you're walking over and starting to talk to a woman, she's going to know
what you're up to. In fact, even if you're not interested in her at all, she's going to THINK that you are. There's nothing you can do to change that fact, so here’s how to
use it to your advantage.
Walk up a woman and say, “I was over there thinking about what to say to you as an
‘opening line,”, but you know what? Forget it. Honestly, you just look like someone I’d love to meet.”
Practice this one in front of a mirror if you have to. Say it with confident, calm,
authentic body language and it will work for you just about every time.
Gotta love it.