Looking to get your ex back is not an easy process. You may have all kinds of ideas
and thoughts about what you want to say and do. However, when you are trying
to get back with him or her, it takes careful consideration and planning. Mistakes
do happen in relationships and you may feel that another chance can bring the
two of your closer.
You will need to figure out why you want to get your ex back. If the bad
outweighs the good, then you may have a good edge to get back with them. If you
are doing it to keep him or her away from other suitable prospects, then you will
be disappointed. If you are serious about how much you miss your ex, then by all
means, give it a chance.
You must sit down and think about why you broke up. Look at both sides of the
relationship. There were probably things that he did that you did not like;
certainly there were things that you did that she did that you did not like. Once
you realize where you went wrong, you can start making corrections and amends.
You will have to work on making those amends if you intend to get back with your
ex. It is important not to allow things to be the same as they were before you
broke up the first time. If one of you has an explosive temper, hopefully the time
away from each other has changed that attitude.
If one of you was a frivolous spender, hopefully you have learned that you need
to get your finances in order. What if you guys were married, then what? You
would be in big trouble as a couple.
Both of you need to prove to each other that you are willing and ready to change.
The only way to show that is through action. The action must be consistent. It
can’t be a onetime thing and then go back to your old ways.
Set up a meeting with your ex. This way, both of you can see where the other is
going. Talk out your issues and concerns. See where both of you are headed. You
need to be committed prior to getting back together.
If you start early before the reconciliation, it will be easier to keep doing it once
you two connect again. The reunion has to beneficial for both parties in order for
it to survive.
Signs That Your Ex Wants You Back
There are signs that your ex wants you back—however, be aware that it may
just be wishful thinking on your part. So don’t get caught up in their initial
actions. Give it some time and you will see if it’s the real deal.
However, there are some actual genuine signs that your ex is looking to get
back with you:
• Your ex constantly keeps in touch with you.
• Your ex enjoys your company.
• Your ex has no serious relationships and has mentioned that to you.
• Your ex likes talking to you.
• Your ex wants to be around you, whether it’s on a date or not.
• Your ex talks to you about serious issues—he or she initiates it and depends
on you to listen.
• Your ex calls you just to say hello.
• They encourage you to keep the communication going.
• Your ex is interested in getting to know you again.
• Your ex initiates wanting to see more of you.
• They feel at peace when they are around do.
• They want to keep up with you and not let you out of their sight.
• They lose weight to impress you.
• They don’t make a big deal if something goes wrong.
• Your ex does not want to break the connection they have with you.
• Talks about other girls, but shows no interest towards them.
• Asks if you are interested in someone else.
• Makes sexy gestures when he or she is in your presence
• Stares in your eyes for a few minutes.
• Is confident that getting back together is the right move.
• Be a little quieter than you were before. Don’t talk as much. That will make
him or her ask more questions and become curious.
Should You Date Your Ex?
You may be thinking about dating your ex again after a break up. If you do
decide to go that route, you need to be sure this is what you want to do. Should
it not work out, there could be hard feelings on one or both sides.
On the other hand, if it turns out ok, then you won't have to hold your breath.
You will feel relieved because you had a nice time. However, don't rush too fast
into it because you may not know what is on your ex's mind initially. It may take
a minute or two to find out.
You have to be comfortable while you are dating your ex. Make sure that you
have gotten over the past hurt and anger that was in your previous relationship
with them. You will not feel at ease unless you know that part of your past is
totally behind you.
Don’t relive the past and what happened. Forget about it and move on. You will
have to do that if you want a fresh start with your ex. It's ok to reminisce on the
good times, but leave the bad times alone. It will also take time for you to get
over any hurt and pain that you and your ex experienced in the previous
Before you can move on, learn from your mistakes and vow not to repeat them
again. If you and your ex are looking to start fresh in a relationship with each
other, start slow and don’t expect a lot from each other in the beginning. Going
slow is the best way to renew and rekindle a relationship. Both of you will be
able to start fresh and make amends.
You will be able to pick up on things more because you will have learned from
the past. You won't be naïve to things like you were before.
You have to be cognizant of your actions that may have offended your ex in the
past. Try not to make those same mistakes in the new relationship. You ex
should feel the same way about mistakes he or she made in the past.
Make sure that you have forgiven your ex for things they may have done to hurt
or humiliate you from the last relationship. You cannot move forward until you
are free from that bondage. Forgiveness not only helps your ex, but it helps you
as well. Don't bring up anything in the past that relates to the hurt and pain
that you and your ex experienced.
If you're not sure about exclusively dating your ex, you may want to date others
before you make your decision. Besides, there is no guarantee that you will
hook up with your ex again.
How To Get Your Ex To Rekindle The
Love For You Again
There was the time when you and your ex had a loving relationship. You
cuddled, you kissed, and you just couldn’t stay away from each other. Now that
you have broken up and trying to get back together, it can feel weird because
you’ve been away from each other for a while. However, there are some ways to
rekindle that love you once had:
• Change the way you look. If you used to look ordinary, spice it up. For women,
it could mean getting new clothes and a new hairstyle. Men like to see women
looking their best. With men, they can step it up a notch in the clothing
department as well. When you’re on a date, try wearing dress pants instead of
jeans all of the time. Get some new perfume or cologne.
• Take things slow. There’s no reason to rush into anything. Keep the lines of
communication open. It’s also important to keep eye contact. You will know
whether or not they are really serious about getting back together.
• Compliment each other. People like compliments. It helps to boost their self
esteem. You can reminisce about the good times you guys shared. Plus, you can
make them happen again when the time is right.
• Don’t be in a rush for that loving feeling. You have to make sure that you are
open to receive. Don’t bring baggage in from previous relationships. Rushing
can push your ex away. They may not want to come back after that.
• Go at a slow, but steady pace. You want to be their friend first. Everything
else will work itself out.
• Be yourself and your ex will appreciate you for it. If they knew your
personality back then and wasn’t offended, then rest assured you have no
reason to make changes.
Don’t come on too strong. Your ex can get offended and go elsewhere.
Avoid Being Desperate
When you are starting over again with your ex, don’t be in a hurry. Take your
time and don’t overdo it. Your ex will be able to sense that desperation in your
actions and by what you say. Take it day by day and allow the process to take
Being desperate will do nothing but push your ex away. Think about what you
guys did on your first date. Maybe you went to the movies or to the museum.
Try doing some of the things that you did when you were dating the first time.
You’re basically starting over anyway, so why not start from the beginning.
Don’t call each other every day starting out. You must give you ex space and
time to be alone. Allow them to miss you for a few days. If you are always
talking to them on the phone or seeing them every day, then they cannot miss
you. Eventually, they may get tired of being around you before it’s all said and
With your free time, you can find other activities that will keep you busy.
Engage in activities that you were involved in before the ex came back into your
life. You can take a walk in the park, or get together with friends over dinner.
Or you can go to the movies by yourself. If you don’t like to do that, then rent
some movies to watch at home. You must remember that having that space is
crucial in order for both parties to appreciate one another.
Don’t be so bold as to let them know that you want to go out with them once
you guys get back together. Start out as a platonic friendship and work it from
there. Make eye contact as you are talking to each other.
Don’t show your feelings too soon. Wait and you will know when the time is
right to do that. Keep a friendly atmosphere and once it’s time to move to the
next step, you will know.
Make sure to avoid the attachment phase. You have to be an ind ependent
person and think for yourself. Men, in particular prefer women who are
independent. They may not say it, but if they sense that you are needy, some of
them will play the stringing game. They will string you along until they have no
more use for you.
You are responsible for making and keeping yourself happy. Don’t depend on
anyone else to do it for you. If you do, you will be disappointed. Once you
channel into your independent mode, your ex will notice and will probably crawl
back to you. They will realize what they missed and will do anything to get you
back into his or her good graces.
Why You Should Not Be Needy With
If you are a person that is insecure and is afraid of being without a mate, then
you can be considered as needy. Being needy traps you from getting out and
about when your mate is not around.
If you broke up and looking to get back with your ex, you may have a difficult
time. You will have to learn to get out of the trap that you’re in and let go.
When you are needy, you always feel like you need someone to talk to. Keep in
mind that there will be times that you cannot talk to your ex. They may be busy
doing other things at that time.
You have to know that your ex is possibly interested in getting back. However,
don’t stop your whole world because of it. Your life must still go on. Being
needy means that you need to be reassured that you are loved.
When working to get back with your ex, there are some things that you should
• Show your desperation outwardly.
• Squander the other person’s time.
• Constantly asking them whether or not they are still interested in getting back
together with you.
• Constantly asking other questions in regard to feelings.
• Give them the space they need.
• Don’t call them every day or every few hours.
If you are working to get back with your ex, the last thing he or she wants is for
someone to be calling them or hounding them every few hours. The more you
do it, the quicker you push them away from you. Then you will really experience
being by yourself.
Don’t center your life around your ex. Be free to do other things. Find other
activities that you are interested in. When you do spend time with your ex, you
will appreciate it more.
Being needy is dangerous and can lead to a failed reunion.
Other Actions To Avoid
If you are really serious about getting your ex back, just as you need to do
some things, there are also some things that you need to avoid: Heeding the
warnings can help you move back closer into the relationship that you once had
with your ex:
• Avoid being straightforward and upfront. That can be a sign of neediness and
desperation on your part.
• Don’t use expletives, especially if you did not use them before in your
relationship with your ex. Using expletives is not ladylike nor is it gentlemanlike
either. It can put a bad taste in your ex’s mouth.
• Be nice to your ex. Otherwise, they won’t want to give you the time of day.
• Don’t set them up with your other friends. If you want him or her for yourself,
you need to act like it.
• Be yourself and don’t start acting like anyone else. Don’t be fake. Don’t be or
act like something that you’re not. Your ex will be able to see right through you.
They want you just as you are.
• Jealousy is not a good feeling to have. When you get jealous, you start to feel
insecure and not trustworthy of your ex. You get scared that your ex is seeing
someone else. When you start feeling like that, then you are jeopardizing the
• Don’t make your ex jealous. They will realize that you are playing games and
may not want to participate.
• Don’t use his or her best friend as leverage to get back at your ex.
• Don’t lie to your ex. Be truthful with him or her. They will be able to trust you
easier when you’re honest with them.
• Do not let on to him or her how much you miss them, at least not
immediately. Wait until the relationship has gotten more serious again to do
that. If you do it too soon, you may run your ex away.
• Don’t start flirting right away. A nice smile says it all. Later on when you and
your ex start to get close again, then you may think about flirting with him or
• Don’t give yourself up for him or her quickly. Then your ex will see you as an
easy catch. After that, they may not be around much longer.
• Avoid being pushy. That can push your ex away from you for good.
• Take your time about getting back with your ex. If you rush it, you may mess
up a potentially good thing.
• If they want you back, you will know it. Don’t fawn all over them trying to find
out. Everything happens in its own time.
Playing Hard To Get
Playing hard to get is something that some male and females try to master. It is a way
of testing the other to see if they are really interested in you.
Playing hard to get involves mystery and the love of chasing after the other. Sometimes,
one or the other will try to make it impossible to be with them. That can be a little too
much. It's ok to be unavailable sometimes, but if you make it too difficult, they will just
go on and pursue someone else.
When you play hard to get, you make yourself valuable to the person that is pursuing
you. If you are always available for your ex, they will not perceive you as a challenge.
To them, you are too easy, too needy and too clingy.
It seems though more men than women prefer a challenge. If they feel that they can
manipulate you into doing what they want, then they don’t want you. They don’t even
want to go out on a date with you anymore.
Another turnoff is if one or both of you is controlling or demanding. That just says that
you always want to be in charge, no matter what. That can run your ex away.
You have to be different for your ex. Your ex has to see things that they did not see
the first time in your relationship. They need to see things that will make them tick and
be interested. Don't settle for being ordinary.
Maybe you can dress a little different—not provocative. Say for instance, if you always
wore sweats around your ex when you were together, maybe try wearing some nice
dress slacks or a nice skirt suit.
If you are a woman and didn't wear makeup before, go to a department store and have
someone apply makeup on your face. If you're a guy that doesn't wear cologne, pick
out some that have a nice scent. These are simple changes and your ex will
immediately notice the difference.
You need to know what makes your ex tick. You may have failed to do that in the past,
but with reconciliation, you have another chance. It can make the difference in your
renewed relationship with him or her.
When you're playing hard to get with your ex, you need to know that they are
appealing enough to go after. You don't want to be predictable and have your ex
knowing what you are going to do and say. People in that category don’t' provide a
sense of mystery and are not a challenge for the ex that is chasing him or her.
Your ex won't feel that it's in their best interest to pursue the relationship again. You
have to think out of the box. If you were passive in the previous relationship, show
your ex that you are now a different person. You are no longer the "easy" and "willing"
person you once were.
You must be worth your ex's time in order for him or her to chase after you. You
should feel honored and special that you can keep your ex guessing for a moment. You
want your ex to see that you are valuable in the relationship.
So that means no sleeping around on the first date, even if you did it with him or her
previously. You can't do it this time. Otherwise, your ex will leave you alone.
As you are playing hard to get, you want to have such an impact on your ex that they
would not want anyone else but you.
Keep in mind that you can only be a challenge to them for so long. Once the
relationship has been rekindled, it's time for a more serious role on both sides.
Tips For Playing Hard To Get
Playing hard to get is about flirting, even when you are doing it with your ex. Even if
with that, you must know that your ex is worth investing in again. The point of doing
this is so you and your ex can get back together again.
When you're playing hard to get with your ex, the purpose this time is to see if they are
really interested in having a relationship with you again. You don't want any hurt
feelings on either side. Plus, you or your ex may feel that you were taken for granted
before the break up.
Just because the thought of getting back together is there, that does not mean that
you or your ex can play it safe. You can't take for granted that your ex is going to
automatically fall in love with you again.
Here are some tips you can use to see if the strategy will work:
• When your ex calls, you don’t always have to answer the phone. It's your call as when
you want to talk to them. Keep them wondering a little bit. Try not to always make
yourself available when they call.
• Since this should be a challenge, you don't want to come off as an easy person. You
want them to sweat a little. That way, you will know whether or not they are really
serious about reconciling.
• You don't have to speak with your ex every day. It can get boring and one or both of
you can lose interest rather quickly.
• When you know your ex is not there, call him or her and leave a message. Let them
know that you regret missing to speak with them. This indicates interest; however,
don't let the cat totally out of the bag.
• Don’t show a hint of desperation. Just hold on to the mystery that is inside of you for
• Once you and your ex make headway to reconciliation, you can stop using this
strategy. It's become serious and your ex will probably be tired of the games by then.
Why You Should Not Play Mind Games
With Your Ex
If you are looking to get back with your ex, you should be serious about it. Don’t play
games and string them along. That is the worst thing that you can do. Once you start
doing that, they will figure that you are serious and want to make that move.
However, that may not be what you have in mind. Some exes like to play games just to
get revenge. Or they just want to put you on their little finger. So when they get
through with you they can throw you to the curb.
By that time you are hurt and angry. So you decide to get back at them by devising a
plan. This is a foolish thing to do. Getting revenge on someone solves nothing and can
lead to more frustration.
It is important that you are serious about getting back with your ex. The emotions run
high for males and females. It’s difficult when you break up from a relationship. Then a
while later, trying to get back together is not a bed of roses.
So when you decide you want to get back with your ex, you have to mean business.
Besides, their feelings are probably still raw. They probably still have feelings for you,
even though you’ve been apart for a while.
Being in a relationship is serious business. Therefore, you and your ex must take it
seriously. Don’t play around or string anyone along if you’re not serious about having
a meaningful union. People start to get too attached and then all hell breaks looks
when one of you wants to detach.
Be sure that your feelings for your ex are real. Be confident that you want to make a go
of the relationship again. If one of the parties is not serious about it, they need to be
honest and say so. Playing games with your ex is serious business and can have
serious consequences if you’re not ready to get back together with them.
Remaking The Commitment
If it’s full speed ahead for you and your ex, both parties need to check themselves.
There are things that should have been resolved prior to you guys getting back
together. Here are some things that you need to do before you remake that
• If your relationship was wavering, you and your ex make sure that this time around
the outcome will be different. Both of you have to make changes in order for the
relationship to work and grow.
• You and your ex have learned what to do and what not to do from your previous
relationship. The mistakes that were made back then are history. You have realized
that you can’t do the same things again.
• Any problems that both of you had with each other have been resolved. Those issues
will not or should not come up again. It’s important to hash out the past before
moving on to the future.
• Both parties must be willing to give and take. It can’t be one person always giving
and the other one always taking. There has to be a balance. Also, there will be times
when you have to compromise, even though you may not want to.
• Both parties will need to agree to disagree. It’s obvious that you’re not going to
agree on everything, but you can agree to disagree. Doing that will give both of you a
peace of mind.
• You and your ex both know what you want out of the relationship. You have sat and
talked with each other extensively. You know each other’s habits, what makes you
guys alike and what makes you different.
• You don’t have to be around each other all of the time. Even in a relationship, you
still need space. If you don’t one of you may start feeling needy. Or one of you may
start feeling cramped.
• You love your ex more so because of who he is and not just what he has. There are
too many people who get in a relationship because of the material aspect. When all of
the material stuff is gone or your ex suffers a financial loss, will you stay or go?
• Move on from past mistakes. Both of you are looking for a fresh start, so what better
way to do it than to move forward? Looking back in the past just keeps you behind.
You can’t move forward if you’re always dwelling on what happened before, especially
if it was negative.
• You have confidence that the relationship will work. You and your ex can work
together to iron out any differences that you may have.
• You have genuine respect for each other. Neither of you is about disrespecting the
other in any way.
• Be able to be affectionate toward your ex again. This is one of the main parts o f
getting back together. There has to be genuine love and care for each other. Don’t just
get back together because of the intimacy and the lovemaking that you miss so much.
• Remove any jealousy or envy from your system. You nor your ex can have a
satisfying and productive relationship if one or both parties are insecure and can’t
trust each other.
• Don’t expect your ex to be something that they’re not. Accept them for who they are.
Doing The Little And Simple Things
For And With Your Ex
There are things that you can do to show your ex that you are serious about getting
back with them and staying together. However, there are some people that think you
have to spend a lot of money and always do something big in order to impress them.
That is not true. A lot of times it’s the little and simple things that you can do that will
The little things are those that your ex will appreciate the most. They can be planned
or they can be spontaneous. There are some women and men who are not into big
productions when it comes to winning them over. You can save that for another time.
Here are some of the little things you can do for your ex once you’ve gotten past the
getting back together stage:
• Compliment them on how they look. Tell them how beautiful or how handsome they
• Give them a single rose.
• Give them a hug and let them know how much you appreciate them.
• Call them spontaneously and let them know that you are thinking about them.
• Hold their hand.
• Give them a massage after a rough day.
• Leave them notes and let them know how you feel.
• Place your arm around them as you’re taking a walk.
• Smile at them.
These are little things that you can do with your ex before you get into more romance
and loving each other more. It shows that you care about your ex and that your ex
cares about you. It means that both of you are willing to take the relationship to
It’s important to show some kind of action in order to indicate where you guys are
going with this union. There’s no use in stringing the other person along if you are not
serious about moving forward with them.
What Does Your Ex Want From A
It has been shown that the more you try to get your ex back, the more they try to stay
away from you. In other words, if you become needy and desperate to get your ex back,
your ex will find you more repulsive. You start to do things that you would never do if
it were someone else.
People who get kicked to the curb after a break up usually think that it was caused by
not being good enough for their beau. This makes them feel that they need to do more
in order to win back their ex’s love and affection.
However, that is not necessarily the case. What your ex really wants is someone who
can think for themselves and has a strong will to be the best they can be. They also
want someone who will challenge them to be the best that they can be. The key word
here is “challenge”.
Just like your ex enjoys the challenge of you playing hard to get, they want someone
who can give them a run for their money. They want someone who can think for
themselves and be independent.
If there is only one person in the relationship that decides everything that goes on,
there is no challenge within that union. The relationship is just one-sided and that is
not exciting. Your ex is always looking for a challenge and excitement.
They always want something new to stir up the pot in a good way. They want to see
more than what they have. They want to explore and experience other things outside
of what they know.
For most relationships, this is not something that people think about. They just know
that they have feelings for their partner and want to spend the rest of their lives with
them. By getting to explore more than just wining and dining, both parties have
elevated their relationship to another level.
Find out what your ex really wants in regard to a relationship. Ask them questions. You
may be surprised at their answers. Don’t take them for granted and assume that they
are always looking for a romp in the sack. There is more to a relationship than just
doing that. Once you know what they really want, you can make plans to make some
changes for the better.
You may find out that your ex has ended up dating another person. Just because they
are dating someone else does not mean that it’s etched in stone. If you are still
thinking about getting back with your ex, you can still peek their curiosity. Act on what
you need to and show your ex that you can fulfill his or her needs.
Leave the door open for your ex to wonder what you are going to do. Make it a mystery
so that will be curious as to what you have in store. You don’t need to rev eal
everything. That would spoil it for you and your ex.
Keep them wondering at each step. Don’t blab about changes that will happen in the
relationship. It’s better to do it with action than continuing to talk. That way, your ex
will know that you mean business.
Your ex wants to know how you want to plan for the future in regard to your
relationship with him or her. They want to know how they play a part of that. Of course,
don’t tell everything at once.
It’s important to have your mindset focused on presenting a challenge that will keep
your ex in suspense.
Making Changes With Your Ex
When you are working on getting back together with your ex, both of you have to keep
in mind that it takes both of you to repair a relationship. Both of you must agree to do
what it takes to make it happen. If only one of you wants to make progress, the
relationship will be doomed from the start.
After both of you have decided to move forward with getting back together, you will
have to take renewed steps to get it right this time. Maybe one of you has a habit of a
bad temper. Renew your mind so that you don’t flare up every time something does
not go your way or there’s something you’re not happy about. Making that step to
change bad habits is a plus.
Basically, you are starting all over again with your ex. Make it a fresh start. Think about
the first time the two of you met and made it work. Get reacquainted with each other.
You will have to get to know each other again from the beginning. Think about some
of the special times that you had with your ex. See if you can rekindle some of those
Seek and ask for forgiveness for the mistakes you made in the previous relationship.
Also, forgive yourself for what happened. That is the only way that you can move
forward without carrying a burden of guilt.
You and your ex need to be willing to change your thinking about certain things. You
can’t take some of the same attitudes that you had before and use them. They may be
detrimental to your relationship.
Work on rebuilding your future than staying stuck in your past. You won’t move
anywhere if you don’t move on.
You and your ex must be willing to listen to each other. In order to communicate
effectively, both parties should have a listening ear. Don’t brush off things that your ex
has to say. In essence, you are disconnecting them from you. Disconnection can lead
to a distant relationship. Being disconnected can eventually lead to another break up.
Be careful of what you say. There are those that have a way of being blunt, and they
don’t care whose feelings are affected. You can’t always say what you want to say. Be
careful of the words that you speak to your ex.
Your mouth can be a dangerous weapon if you’re not careful. Think about what you’re
going to say before you speak. A lot of times, it can be the delivery of how you say
things rather than what you say. If you say it in a condescending manner, then it won’t
be received well.
Nourish the relationship and each other. When you do that, you allow the relationship
to grow. Be a caring and affectionate person. Show your ex that you care for them and
that you are serious about getting back together.
Be able to discuss things openly with your ex. Be honest and upfront, but not blunt
with your conversation. Work on your differences and don’t let them stop you from
moving forward. Work on your problems together as a couple.
Both you and your ex have to trust each other. Trust is very important in a relationship.
It’s even more important when you are trying to get back with your ex. Trust makes for
a good relationship. If you don’t have it, you don’t have a relationship. Of course, after
a break up with your ex, that trust has to be earned again.
Keep the baggage out of the relationship and away from your ex. It will not do any
good for you or them. It just hinders the relationship between you and your ex even
When you are learning to bond with your ex again, take it day by day. Don’t be in a
rush to make it right. You want to lead up to it and make it worth your while. This time
around, you want your relationship with your ex to last.
Get yourself in order first before you take on a rekindled relationship with your ex.
Both of you have to be past the “broken” stage in order to give it another chance. Love
yourself first. Be honest with yourself. You are the only one that can do what you need
done for yourself. When you’ve mastered that, then you can start loving your ex all
Make getting back with your ex a positive experience. The last thing you need is to be
hindered and burdened down with unnecessary weight.
Create goals for your relationship. You and your ex should spend time discussing what
is important for your relationship. Each one is different and has different needs. Make
a list and discuss it with your ex. Both of you may have different ideas from what
you’ve done in the past. You and your ex need to know where the relationship is going.
If not, you are just going through a maze.
Be happy for you and your ex. Don’t squander it. Being happy is crucial to the success
of getting back together with your ex. Show your ex how much you care about them.
Have a sense of humor. It’s good if your ex also had a sense of humor.
You and your ex should live your life to the fullest. Don’t be afraid to take the
relationship in a new direction. You and your ex can explore options that you have not
You and your ex need to spend quality time together. Plan to do things that are not
extravagant and over your financial means. The two of you can have a picnic in the
park or go to the movies.
Be committed to starting fresh with your ex. Do what you say you’re going to do . Of
course, things do come up,; but for the most part, be a person of your word. If you
can’t make it, then make sure that is communicated to your ex. They will understand
and not get upset.
Don’t allow disagreements to stop you from working on your relationship with your ex.
Disagreements will come, but it’s how you handle them that makes the difference.
Sometimes you just have to let things be. If you don’t agree on something, then so be
it. Don’t let an agreement make you resentful with your ex.
If you feel the need to be alone, communicate that to your ex. It’s important that they
know what you want. Once again, communication with your ex is one of the keys to
making the relationship work.
Keep in mind that getting back with your ex is not necessarily an easy task. It takes
work, time and patience. You will know if it’s meant for you and your ex to be together
again. Using the tips and suggestions in this guide, you will be able to get a fee l for
what you need to do.
A lot of times break ups happen because of silly reasons. If you and your ex would sit
down and think about the things that cause this to happen, reconciliation would
probably not be far behind. Getting back with your ex can be a dream come true. It can
be difficult to start over in a relationship with someone else.
Your ex probably has so much invested in this relationship, it would be difficult for
them to start with someone else. Getting back together with your ex involves changes
on both sides of the aisle. You can go back and do the same things you did in the
previous relationship. There has to be adjustments in order to make it work.
The best thing to do is to communicate and be honest with each other. Find out what
turned you off with your ex and your ex should do the same with you. You will be able
find out which behaviors annoy you. Make changes so that your relationship can be
If you and your ex are willing to do that, then your relationship can be better than it
was the first time around.
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