There is a simple rule of a great life. Eat or get eaten. Everyone wants to get successful, get rich, have a girlfriend. But only a few people achieve what they want. And all others get settled with the circumstances they are in and spend their entire life regretting what they could have achieved and what they lost. As someone said ‘You get what you deserved’. Likewise, if you don't work for a thing you want then how and why you should get that thing you are dreaming of. I mean there are seven billion people in the world and millions of them dreaming of the same thing. If this is the case, then the person or the people with the utmost desire should be in that position, in that lifestyle. And believe me, it's not that hard to get that!