My friend, Ericka.

There's another Ericka Clay.

I receive her emails from time to time (I suppose our email addresses are pretty close), and I've learned a lot about her.

She's from Chicago. She has a daughter. She's African American and enjoys martial arts and drives a luxury sedan. She travels a lot and has her own personal travel agent who plans vacations for her, like trips to the Bahamas.

Her two friends, Pam and Melvin, are getting married, and I'm invited to the wedding. Okay, she's probably the one invited to the wedding, but I'm the one who technically received the digital invitation and can do a killer electric slide.

So, you do the math.

It's strange seeing your online counterpart live life and to take an extreme personal investment in someone you've never even met.

Well, maybe for some people.

I pray for her, Ericka Clay.

I pray for her friends, Pam and Melvin, that they have a beautiful wedding and a marriage that is the true embodiment of God's never-ending love for them.

I pray for Ericka's daughter and her upcoming parent/teacher meeting, which I'm sure will turn out just fine if she's anything like her mother.

I pray for the trips Ericka takes and the car she drives, that both keep her safe on the road and in the air.

I pray for a woman I don't know and will most likely never meet and who looks nothing like me and can't know the thoughts in my head or the words in my heart.

But I pray for her, because her pulse throbs, and mine does too. She's a child of God. And so am I.

I have His breath and so does she.

You see, it's that simple.

We all need to stop making everything so complicated.

Complication is the devil's dance, and right now, he's doing it beautifully.

Let's trip him up, shall we?

Let's pray for and make friends with and serve those who are nothing at all like us.

And yet, everything we are, too.