Emotions are not profitable to its processor unless it is kept under control. By controlling emotions you will overcome the anxieties. Happiness comes down to those who have learned how to control, to start the course of action. Take the following steps:
1. The Bible is the voice of God and the shield to guard us against the enemy, no weapon against can prosper.
A credible perfect with nothing can irrupt in the mind. When His word becomes diet, we can reach his mind. Principality the power comes from the Kingdom of God in the spirit, where the break-through happens. The conscious mind holds the picture of the Lord as the shroud in conscious full.
2. Forgiveness is a decision not a feeling. You make a decision to forgive without explanation or communication and refuse to talk about it. This matter is like rubbish worthless and useless. If you bring it up, you will be hurt.
Forgetting the past is putting behind what people has done in blame to enjoy the present.
3. Never take your own revenge, don't play God, the Lord Jesus is the ultimate weapon. Jesus will come when the Scripture is refilled in the ear. You win victory when you rely on the Lord. King David relied on God and defeated Goliath. God gave him courage and confidence. Don't return evil for evil, return good for good and evil, If hurt forgive. When two people have confrontation, you have to back down, it stops you from giving a punch or a kick. Break it in the name of Jesus. You are a triumphant if you prevent the worst before it happens. Love conquers all. Use the power of writing rather than the mouth piece. Don't build your life on human promises. If you lowered the shield of God to take trust in man you will get hurt. People often have an art in saying excessive good things for oneself self-esteem but at the heart, lurks a hostility. This can also be a fresh starting-point for further desire. When men understand each other, controversy is the first thing finishes off. People have got to have simple relationship to eliminate the fear of what might happen. It is just as simple as that. If you are at a loss to start a conversation, introduce the weather subject as the Englishman does. The happiest conversation is the one where there is no competition, no vanity, but a calm quite interchange of sentiments. The decision you make help others to apply the same picture.
4. Let the friends you choose be all gentle and simple, without "wants" without dominating thoughts which obsesses or haunts and without judgement don’t preach but care and listen. An opinion if not examined critically bears little wisdom and often creates a dispute. A conversation influenced by probabilities is more of trouble spot. A noisy or nosy person steals the peace. Avoid people who have a little knowledge, often gossipers, the substance of which is about the affairs of others. A person who talks idly or let out secrets have no positive movement except to start a fight when the gossip escalates. The person who gossip is often suspicious due to an obscure mind filled with a mysterious past. Suspicion is a dark thought; the act is like bats amongst birds only flying at night. Gossip also steals the peace and shut the door on the fruit of the spirit which is joy, virtue and knowledge. A peaceful man gives peace around him which brings pleasure or joy to other people. We need to confront emotions in order to have peace.
The pity stuff about relationship is you let people walk over you if you are easy and willing person.
5. Be on the giving not the taking side. Taking anything away is not a pretty thing, what was taken belongs to the people, the hurt will grow when you cannot give back equal. Giving more grace, you receive more grace. The spirit cleans away the rust produced by human nature. Giving in human’s language is fragile, demands something’s back to match feelings.
Praise the holiest in the height, for his words are most wonderful, most sure in all his way. What has been said is not only a rational for our existence with other people but also itself, a path of perfecting.
The physical objectives of controlling emotions is to avoid “Satan’s syndrome” to know not or locked out.