Why We Flop in Love by Santosh Jha - HTML preview

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Preface:

 

Love, as we all know is the most cardinal, critical and concomitant emotion of our conscious and subconscious being. Such is the mystically munificent joy and satisfaction of the ubiquitous utility of love that we all wish to be in perpetuity and propensity of this divine endowment. However, the marvel of love lands many of us on the wrong side of love. As is true with most realities of humanity, there are more flops than successes in love.

We shall talk in details about how we can understand the mechanism and processes of love to avoid being a flop and to ensure sure successes. However, before we begin to do that, we need to accept something important, which shall create the ease of navigation to our understanding of love processes and mechanisms. We are fortunate to live in the new millennium, which has heralded a very facilitative new thinking. It was brewing up for over two decades but now as we moved into 21st century; we have the wisdom to answer many questions of wellness in a completely new light. The answers have come up as there has been a change in perception about the three core notions, essential for wellness and problem solutions.

These three notions are called 3Cs – Cognition, Consciousness and Causality. The new thinking offers new and scientifically appropriate perceptions about the three notions and helps humanity in understanding them in a new light. This is a huge boost for confidence required for empowerment and wellness.

Every new thing is received with skepticism. It is only natural. Most of us have a narcissistic affection towards what we think as right and just. No wisdom, no science, not even divinity are effective enough to open the closed doors of mind of a person. It is only a personal desire and disposition.

However, millions of people globally are benefitting by this new thinking and new perceptions about the 3Cs. This new thinking emerges out of the experience and knowledge of humanity for the last millions of years.

In the past, usually, all critical issues of life and living were addressed either with extreme ‘scientific positivism’ or with dogmatic ‘religious reductionism’. The right answers for wellness therefore looked elusive for humanity, be it relationships, faith or consciousness.

A ‘new thinking’ believes; answers are in the integrative and assimilative domain as both wisdoms have unbelievable commonality. Moreover, answers cannot be prescriptive but evolve within when one undergoes holistic option building. The new thinking is all about an assimilative and integrative approach and technique, drawing holistic resources from both traditional as well as modern wisdoms.

In this eBook, while dealing with love and its mechanism, this new thinking of 3Cs and overall holism of contemporary wisdom has been the guiding light. I humbly invite you to this new approach, which at times may not seem mainstream and populist but surely can lead to better acceptance of all shades of realism of love.

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