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PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Alok k. Dubey

B.com, MBA (CM)
Mail to : alok_dubey21@hotmail.com

 

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Personality is depends on:
1. Mental
2. Physical
3. Intellectual

Factor influence Personality:
A. Heredity: we cannot help it.
B. General Appearances: we can do a little only.
C. Culture: We can change our society & atmosphere to change culture. D. Experience: It counts valuable point to enhance personality. E. Education & Training: Education & Training can help one to enhance his

personality.

 

Personality Traits (Characteristics):

1) Appearance: Outer looking for example clothing, expressions and hairstyles etc.
2) Speech Mannerism: It contains
a) Clarity of voice
b) Tone
c) Speed

3) Gesticulation
4) Mental Alertness
5) Consistency of thoughts i.e. stability of thoughts
6) Types of approach:
a) Positive approach
b) Negative approach

7) Leadership Qualities

 

8) Self-confidence in a positive approach

ABCRL Formula:A. Accuracy
B. Brevity
C. Clarity
D. Relevance
E. Logic

Self-Confidence Existed ina) Self –respect
b) Self- esteem
c) Self –belief

Step for self-confidence:
Step 1: Take off fear from mind Step 2: Will (determination)
Step 3: +ve approach toward the life Step 4: Know your shortcomings Step 5: Inferiority complex

Formula for every step of life:

 

+ve Approach

 

No Inferior Complex

 

Self-Confidence

 

Right work at right time

 

Success

 

Appreciation

 

Motivation

Outer Personality:
a) Neatness, cleanliness and well mannered b) Active, Enthusiastic and practical c) Well informed and quick to act
d) Disciplined and amiable
e) Dynamic, flexible and reasonable

Professional Quality:
a) Clear in mind and systematic b) Industrious and hard working c) Responsibility
d) Clear vision and strong will power e) Concentration of mind

Inner Quality:
a) Sympathetic, sweet, loving & caring
b) Not vindictive, impulsive, touchy & non-fluctuating c) Calm & composed
d) Balance of extrovert ness & introvert ness e) Balance of humour and sobriety
f) Balance of love & law
g) Confidence in self
h) Fearless & self controlled

HOW CAN YOU CHANGE YOURSELF

Change by:
I. Action level
II. Thought level

Thought Level:
1. Waste thought :
2. Negative thought :impractical idea
practical idea but harmful to self and others
3. Ordinary thoughts
4. Positive thoughts

Brain Left Hem isphere 1 Rational
2 Verbal
3 Logical
4 Scientific
5 Creative
6 Analytical
7 Data Interpretation 8 Etc.

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Right Hem isphere
1 Emotion
2 Love
3 Patience
4 Tolerance
5 Caring
6 Picture,color,Paninting
7 Music
8 Inspiring etc.

WAVES OF MIND

1. Beta : - 13-25 Hz.
2. Alfa : - 8-12 Hz.
3. Theta : - 4-8 Hz.
4. Delta : - 0.5-4 Hz.

Thoughts are like floods if it is controlled then it should have more benefit.

 

Self-realisation: - Who am I? I am a soul.

 

SOUL “I”

 

Mind Intellect Resolves
Thoughts (Good/Bad)

Conscious mind
Thoughts,
Emotions, Desires Intellect
Judgement, Decision
Discrimination

Subconscious mind, memories imprint,
impression, instinct,

“I” PERSONALITY

 

habits

 

CONCIOUS LIKE FORCE SOUL

Expression of Emotion, Desire, Decision through

the body

Observation is imprinted in subconscious memory bank My body

sensory organs, motor organs Original Quality of Mind

 

1. Peace 2. Purity

To activate sub consciousness (feed good information to memory bank)
1. Hypnotism
2. Sudden depression
3. Meditation

Consumption of O2 in meditatin vis-a-vis Frequency of mind

5
4 4
3 3
2 2

1 1 0.50
5 10 15 20 25 Taking O2 at various level

Beta = 4, Alfa = 3, Theta = 2, Delta = 1 Requirement of Meditation:
1. ConfidenceIron Golden 2. Patience
3. Right Knowledge
4. CourageCopper Silver

5. Responsibilities

 

“Change is the law of Nature”
Courage
: - to fight –ve & waste thoughts Confidence: - in self

 

Knowledge

 

Self
Supreme
World external cycle
Universal Universal Father-hood Brother-hood

 

Responsibility: “to change self”

 

What does “I” refer? Worker

Husband/Wife“I” Son /Daughter

Friend

 

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