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Get Back Your Ex
Special Report

By: Harvey Michales
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The information in this report is just that – information. The author cannot make any


guarantees that you will be able to get your ex back, that is completely up to you and the work


you are willing to put into it.


With that said, I am glad that you have this report. Please feel free to share this e-Book


with any one that may be able to use it. The only stipulation is that you are not allowed to resell


it, as it was given away for free. You are not allowed to copy any information without giving


credit to myself. And last, if you decide to share with others, it has to remain in its original form


and cannot be altered.


I truly hope that this helps you and if you need any further information or help, please


visit us at: for more free information, videos and resources. Are you wondering to yourself - How can I get my ex back? Are you surfing the net right


now looking desperately for a plan of attack? Then you have come to the right place. We are


going to hit this thing head on and tackle this thing together.


In this time of sadness and perhaps anger and bitterness, you need to make sure that you


keep in mind that this did not all happen at once. There was a culmination of things that took


place in order to get you where you now stand. And as sad as it may sound, yes you had


something to do with your break up. If you want to get your ex back, there is one big thing that


you need to do. You have to fix what ever was broken. You need to figure out what went wrong


and think about how you got there. By seeing what landed you here, you can start to figure out


how you are going to get out of it.


Let’s retrace your steps, much like finding something that was once lost, we are going to


look deeper and try to find the love that you and your partner lost. Were you always bickering at


each other? Were you constantly yelling at each other? If this was the case then you need to


start letting things go and learn how to disagree without having it erupt into World War three.


If the issue is mainly yours then you need to take care of it now before it gets any worse.


Just like a friend once told me of his two pack a day smoking habit – “I have to quit smoking


yesterday.” What he meant was he knew how bad it was and that he needed to take care of now


because it was starting to take a toll on him. If there is something you need to work on than do it. It is a lot easier to work on


ourselves than other people. Let them worry about themselves because you really do not have


any control over someone else and the way they act. So take care of what you need to.


Once you do this and start to live it, your ex will definitely start to take notice. It is easier


to show someone that you have changed as opposed to telling someone. Changing yourself for


the better is a quality that many find attractive. It is a sign of strength and definitely a


characteristic of someone that others find to be interesting. Take a look at yourself and put in the


work that you need to.


Follow my lead….


Remember that breaking up is not a death sentence. This does not make you a social


pariah just because you no longer are with someone or in a relationship. You should look at it as


something to learn from. You can take the mistakes you made and learn from it.


One of the most important things top remember is to maintain your social life. Go out


and have a good time. Not only will this show them that you are not going to let things get you


down, you are showing that you are strong enough to move on and push on forward. A quality


that is very attractive to many.


If there is a chance that someone may show interest in you, then go after it. It is one date;


it does not mean that you are betrothed to marry this person. Often times, when ex’s see us on the dating scene again, it really shows them what they had. It’s like that saying, you never really


know what you have until it’s gone. In this case that will be true.


Another important thing is not to let your appearance suffer because of a break up. This


is a big sign that you are getting hit really badly by it. I have seen many women wear the same


sweats for days or the same sweater for weeks because of a break up. I have also seen guys go


without a shower or shave for days at a time because they were hurting. Nothing is less


attractive than seeing someone in this state. And you will definitely not be very attractive to your


ex either looking like this.


Here is a quick checklist to get your ex back


There are a lot of things that can go wrong in a relationship. Perhaps one partner cheated


on another, maybe there were some unkind words that were said or maybe one partner’s needs


were continually going unmet. You may have been dealing with some or none of the above, but


what I do know is right now you are really wishing none of it happened. You are trying to figure


out how you are going to get your ex back, right? No problem, I have outlined some things for


you to do or follow so we can get right back on track and get back to the way things were.


__ Avoid any contact right now. If the breakup is fresh, you need some time away. Chances


are he or she needs some time as well to think and clear their head.


__ Think about what caused the breakup. People who are in a committed loving relationship


do not just decide to leave for no reason. You know why they left. Think about what caused all


of this and what contributed to it.


__ Fix what ever needs fixing. My guess is that there was something that you did that


contributed to the break. Perhaps it was something that you did entirely. If it was, then you need


to fix what ever it is that needs to be fixed. If they see that you have changed, then it is more


likely that they will come back.


__ Keep working on yourself. Continue working on you, change is not immediate and takes


time. Keep working on what ever you need to. It will pay off in the long run. __ Move on with your life. If you are working or going to school you need to take care of your


obligations. Don’t slip into a funk and start calling in sick or missing classes. Moving on with


your life is vital to getting your ex back.


__ Keep your social life active. It seems that exes tend to see you in a different light after a


breakup if you are active in your social life and dating again. They start to see what they were


missing. Get out and get going.


What You Should Not Do


Now that we know what we should do, let’s talk about what we should not do.


There are a lot of things that you can and should do, but there are also a lot of things that you


should not do. Knowing what to avoid doing can make the difference between your ex wanting


to work things out or pushing them further away from you.


What not to do:


One thing to avoid is trying to play with their emotions. Don’t use things like your kids or any


thing you may have over their head as leverage to get them to come back to you. Using methods


like manipulation may get them back initially but eventually they will catch on to you. Why is


that bad? Well, while you may initially get them back, once they catch on to the things that you


are doing, they will likely leave and this time for good. Don’t use childish tricks or antics to get


them back. Don’t ruin any chance you have by pushing them further away.


Stating over and over again that you have changed is also another thing that you need to avoid.


Actions speak louder than words. Telling someone you have changed, especially when it is done


over and over can be quite annoying. Doing things like this will have the other person doubting


your sincerity. Stop saying it and start showing it – change that is.


Professing your love repeatedly can also get really annoying. After hurting someone or causing a


break up, the last thing that person wants to hear is you saying “I love you” a million times over. The fact remains that if you did love them you would not have hurt them to the point where they


wanted to leave. Admit your wrongdoing and do your best to correct it.


One last thing to try and avoid is arguing and telling your ex why you need to reconcile and


make your relationship work. These arguments are usually painful to go through, not to mention


a waste of time in most occasions. Giving an embittered speech highlighting the reasons why


you need to get back together will probably not work. Stop using your mouth muscles and start


using your mental muscles to come up with a solid game plan to get your ex back.


A great coach of mine once said, failing to plan is planning to fail. If you want to get your ex


back, you need to take the right corrective steps in order to do so. Remember, knowing what to


say and do and what not to say and do are essential to you getting your ex back.


I hope that these tips help you to get your ex back. There are tons of free information and videos


at my site: be sure to check it out if you need more detailed


plans to get your ex back. Be sure to check out the guides and resources section as they have


stuff specifically for guys or girls.


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