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Beg For Questions; It Works!

On the Services page on my site I ask, "Want a second opinion?" I offer to give one  for  free  regarding  a  proposed  change  in  your  site.  Several  of  my  friends issued dire warnings about this offer. They were wrong. It works very, very well.

At this writing, the page and this offer have been up for almost a month. I have answered some 30 questions. It takes about 10 to 15 minutes for each. So call it 5-6 hours. A waste of time? No way.

I  have  30  new  potential  clients,  unless  I  discount  the  two  that  did  not  get back with a thank you. I have two brand new clients who will pay me monthly to support  their  site.  I  sold  services  to  two  others,  who  may  yet  convert  to  my monthly service. And another half a dozen I am still cultivating seem interested.

Contrary   to   the   predictions   of   my   friends,   I   have   not   yet   received   an unreasonable  question.  All  have  been  "I'm  stuck"  bits  in  which  the  questioner really  needed  help.  All  have  been uniformly good people,  serious  minded,  and working hard to grow their site. Talk about targeting your market. Hey, these are my kind of people!

My pitch to you? Do all you can to solicit questions you can easily answer. After  answering,  always  go  a  bit  further.  For  example,  if  you  are  visiting  a website,  begin  by  saying  something  neat  about  it,  and  very  gently  suggest  a couple of things that might help. In one case, I suggested moving a graphic down the page and putting explosive grabber text up top of the home page that folks can  be  reading  as  the  graphic  loads.  The  thank-you  reply  for  going  the  extra distance can be a bit overwhelming.

The reason my friends were wrong in their prediction I would be flooded with requests is that people in general are afraid to ask questions. As we look around at our peers, we say, "Hey, how can that be so? I don't see anybody afraid of anything in this business." This may be true of your peers, because like yourself they are out-going, assertive types. Most people are not.

Over my years of teaching mathematics and computer science in secondary schools,  I  found  one  of  the  toughest  tasks  was  to  get  a  youngster  to  ask  a question  so  I  could  figure  where  he  or  she  was  hung  up.  I  worked  at  it,  and  I suspect  I  was  better  at  it  than  most.  But  looking  back,  I  suspect  over  half  the youngsters in my classes *never* asked a question. Here's the why of it.

To  ask  a  question  opens  you  up,  exposes  you  to  the  person  you  are speaking  to.  You  have  given  them  something  about  yourself  that  you  may  not really  want  to  share.  And  you  have  opened  the  door  to  laughter,  ridicule  and scorn. Even rejection, if there is no reply.

Okay,  so  I'm  talking  about  high  school  kids.  But  they're  pretty  much  like people. I know that in my contacts with wannabe and newbie webmasters, most are loaded with fears of this sort. Face it. Getting started on the Web is a scary bit!

No, there is no risk in offering to answer questions. I am going to go further to the point of almost begging for them. I want everything on my site to be as warm and welcoming as I can make it, all in hopes of more questions.

Given a question, of course, I always remind myself of the fears overcome in asking it, the courage, if you will, it took to hit the Send button. My response is always positive, supportive, and upbeat. Worst case something like: Hey, it's not all that bad. Sure, there's room for improvement, but you're really, really close. Then I add an idea that helps. Then a couple more.

It works. Try it and prove me wrong!