The 12 Secret Keys to a Fulfil ed Life
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No unauthorised copying in any form
without written permission of owner
Written by Trevor Gol agher
Published by TrevorGol agher.com Books
Thanks to Wendy & Words for copyediting
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Thank you for choosing to pick up this book
I hope you gain clarity and wisdom from its pages.
12 Secret Keys to a Fulfil ed Life is written as twelve keys of information.
At the end of each key there is a Key Practice to help you in a practical
way to absorb and assimilate its contents.
Throughout the book I have highlighted in bold important aspects and
information within the keys.
I have also overlapped and intermeshed important points of knowledge
between the different keys. This has been done to reinforce the essential
teachings contained within the pages of this book.
You may choose to read all the keys in order and thus the book in its
entirety, or to randomly pick a key to read and work with for that
particular day, week or month.
Whichever way you decide to read and use this book, I sincerely hope you
receive positive change in your life as a result, as this was my aim and
intention in writing it.
I have a sincere wish to help as many people I can to attain a better life. If
you feel you have gained benefit from reading 12 Secret Keys to a Fulfil ed
Life please pass it on to your friends and family, so they can enjoy its
May your life be fil ed with Love and Happiness.
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Key One – Commitment
How serious are you about having a loving and happy life?
Many people say they are, but very few are deeply committed to this
outcome. On one level we al want it, but on another level we want it only
if there is no hurt or pain caused by bringing up old emotional imprinting
and negative issues.
Making a commitment to enjoy a happy life requires that you let go of
most of what you know to be true in your current beliefs and
conditioning. This is a very scary thing to do. Al sense of security can be
washed away, and quite often one can feel very vulnerable, exposed,
confronted or even isolated as a result of taking this step.
It is not all doom and gloom, however, as I am here to tel you that the
greatest joy one can experience is waiting for you right now. On the other
side of the deluded perceptions, resistance, insecurity, the unknown and
fear is a treasure chest of al the joyful and loving jewels you seek.
All that you seek as a human actually resides within.
Located in your heart space resides a divine doorway that leads to al the
joy and happiness that most people are struggling to find and attain. The
key to divine consciousness is waiting for you right now in your heart. It is
this consciousness that brings to you al of your dreams.
Pure unpol uted truth, which is all knowing and loving, desires and is
wil ing to bring your life into a loving and positive state that only dreams
are made of.
Sustained happiness — which is what al humans’ desire — is not
something that is found outside of you. Al positive experiences happen
because of your alignment to the divine energy that is held within you. It
cannot be found anywhere else.
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So the commitment required to allow the beauty of divine happiness and
love to unfold is the commitment YOU make to YOURSELF.
It is the commitment to make the decision to step through the
consciousness doorway in your heart.
It means you will not listen to your ego and mind driving you to stay right
where you are — in your delusionary past conditioning and beliefs. Nor
listen to the ego/mind telling you that you don’t deserve happiness, or
you are not valuable or good enough to succeed.
It is the commitment that YOU accept what drives and motivates you to
seek the divine within; trusting your soul’s consciousness always has your
best interests at heart.
It’s your trusting that its connection to the almighty power of
God/Consciousness has a divine plan for you, and you wil never be able
to stray from its unfoldment.
It’s the commitment to allowing yourself to feel safe in trusting Divine
Sometimes you may think your life is all over the place and you are not
where you think you should be. However, this is only your distorted view
of truth appearing as real and giving you a sense of disharmony, struggle
Your commitment is that you keep alert to not fal ing into old patterns of
non-‐truth and negativity. Put concerted effort into always aligning
yourself to positive spiritual truth and don’t support non-‐truth within
yourself or others.
Are you prepared to put that much effort into changing your life?
Are you prepared to embrace your truth, warts and all?
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Are you prepared to make a difference in your life regardless of what it
Do you feel you deserve or are valuable enough to have a happy life?
Are you prepared to let go of all that prevents you from seeing truth?
These are all very valid questions to consider if you are really serious
about changing your life. Your commitment is very black and white: you
are either committed to happiness or you are not. There are no half
measures or room to be blasé.
Making a commitment to grow towards more happiness requires that you
let go of the myths you hold within your beliefs and perceptions; myths
you currently think to be true.
It requires that you always express how you feel in all situations; that you
remain vigilant and aware in every moment, so you never ever repress
your thoughts, feelings and emotions.
It means you must be fully open and al ow your life to unfold without any
interference. Just let yourself ‘be’ in your divineness.
A commitment means you choose to perceive and know al experience as
positive in the bigger scheme of things. You always look for ways to
support your life with loving thoughts and actions and your interactions
This is the commitment that is required if you wish to truly enjoy a good
This is the commitment and effort required to truly love yourself.
You are driving the bus of your life. Only you hold the controls to brake,
accelerate, to turn left or right.
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Which way do you wish to steer your life?
The choice is, and has always been, yours to make regardless if you feel
The time has never been better than right now for you to make the
changes necessary to bring you into a life ful of joy, ease and abundance.
It only requires that you make a decision to do so and to commit action to