Your One Chance at A Second Chance...Is It Possible
I'd like to share with you one of the building blocks for restoring a marriage.
Everyone has a reputation. We don't get to pick, but everyone is known for something. It
seems that I'm known for helping people repair broken marriages or girlfriend/boyfriend
relationship issues. And in particular, you could say that my specialty is helping people "win
back" their spouse who claims to have fallen out of love. If that's your situation, you'll want
to listen
carefully. And even if it's not, you can learn a lot about how to reconcile your marriage from
what I'm about to share.
When a person learns that their husband or wife doesn't love them anymore, they go crazy
trying to find a fix for their problem. The same is true for couples trying to resolve
differences before
it's too late. Many people go online and search for THE answer.
(That's probably how you found me.) But finding a solution to your marriage problems is
NOT like finding a solution to your home financing problem. You can't just click, buy, and
get
instant gratification.
- Today people are into quick fixes. But you can't "microwave" a relationship. Relationships
work according to the law of the harvest...
You know how a harvest works, don't you? In the spring time you have to plant. Then you
have to water, fertilize, and irrigate all summer long. There's something else you have to do
too...wait! You have to be patient. And then, after you complete every step of the process,
you can harvest the crop.
We're not used to revering a process. Most people look for short-cuts. Today everything is
about efficiency. Efficiency works with machines, business, and finances. But efficiency
does NOT work with relationships.
Renewing a marriage takes TIME. There are no short-cuts! You have to respect the process
and be willing to take every step. (And you have to know what the steps are.)
- Can you imagine goofing-off all spring and summer and then trying to harvest a crop in the
fall? It's impossible!...
Relationships, like crops, are governed by the natural laws of the universe. If you skip a
step, you'll short-circuit the process and slow yourself down. But if you take your time and
go
step-by-step...that' the fastest way. Let me give an example:
A close friend of mine bother marriage was falling apart fast, he was desperately trying to
"win back" his wife. He told me about an e-book he downloaded which recommended that
he date other women in order to make his wife jealous. He said the author explained that
this would bring his wife back to him.
